Trust After An Affair - Surviving Infidelity In Marriage

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Trust After An Affair - Surviving Infidelity In Marriage

Affairs don't have to be fatal to a marriage, although they often are. Esther Perel, couples therapist and author of Mating In Captivity, says an affair can actually lead to a new and wonderful relationship.

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[jailarson]

I have an idea. DON'T CHEAT ON YOUR SPOUSE. 30 minutes of sweating and swapping bodily fluids with someone is not worth the giant pain in the ass when your spouse finds out.

[christofer6]

I second that emotion: DON'T CHEAT. Just don't even put yourself in a position where something could 'happen'. It's one of the most damaging things you can do to harm a person, mentally and emotionally. There are better choices: communication; relationship counselor; or just walk away. You can walk away, clean, and that person could still trust you, respect you, love you. "We can trust without love and be content; but love without trust is just pain." -- Samuel T. Heathington

[Ginasarah2009]

@BluntedWax Exactly

[BluntedWax]

Sorry* not forgiven

[BluntedWax]

In order for a person to be truly forgiven, they must lose something or someone of equal or greater value...

[BluntedWax]

I'm aware this doesn't apply with everyone to this degree. However, it still does apply to everyone but it's a matter of how much.

[BluntedWax]

I know for myself, once u cheat on me and lose my trust It's almost as unforgiving as murdering someone. Regardless what any one thinks, once a person destroys ur trust ur life is forever changed. Anything from social up to business interaction will never be the same as it was before. Whether u realize it or not somewhere in the back of ur head is where this new dout lays. With time this dout will increasingly grow larger changing ur perception on how u view the world.

[LU2013Aziz]

"OOOOOOh interesting!!" fake

[lanimar3417]

I don't know but if someone cheats on you, I think that person doesn't like you anymore and is trying to find someone else. He or she will not cheat on you if the person still likes you, pure and simple and if ever the cheat wants to be back its because he or she is just tied up with marriage. There is a saying by cheaters in our country, no one want to eat the same food all those years. I guess that how cheaters are.