What's it going to take to get someone to listen?
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If he was a "normal" kid, yeah, a spanking would work, but with a 'these' kids, it dosen't work...my son is ten, I have holes in my walls, he attacks his sister, destroys his toys, they don't understand what they do, and how it effects others around. It's exhausting, and frustrating.....
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That is truly fantastic!! I saw your Halloween vid and was thrilled.
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why is he being evaluated? sounds like you have a 'boy', kill-maim-destroy, its in their genes. You could revert to the old fashioned spankins. I believe the younger the child the more you have to be physical w/them until their reasoning abilities kick in, sometimes just lifting the little buggers off thier feet by their shirt and saying NO conveys the message that you are the boss. of course some don't believe in touching, my kids are grown & well adjusted, and still love me.
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I haven't read the comments (again) but my suggestion is that you learn by experience to child proof... more specifically Aiden-proof your home. Our house is covered in gates and locks, and very little furniture (because Ezra used it as a jungle gym). emailing you...
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EE, *pfft* good one.
I'm glad to witness your struggling, as weird as that sounds. I wish I could say something to make it better or help you out or something, but the only tool I have is to witness your struggle and wish you well. If you need to talk, I'm around.
abortedsoul 4 years ago
Thanks! I know you are.. :o)
EmilyElzbth 4 years ago
This just broke my heart... I realized that I hadn't seen your vids in QUITE a while... I unsubscribed to a bunch of people a while back in a YT fit of isolationism. But I had to resub. Peace, Emily
Elaina43 4 years ago
thanks Elaina..I have not been making videos because I've been busy in NY and busy before that. Things are so much better now..Aidan's improving daily! It's amazing what the right help can do..
EmilyElzbth 4 years ago
interesting to learn about what goes on behind closed doors. i think its all the sweets and sugars in his diet, when i was young i used to be similar, many sweets have 'E flavourings' also which some people react funny too. his behavious is because he has to burn off the sugars and adrenaline pumping through his system. remove all the sugars. see if it helps.
jeffreysquirrel 4 years ago
Hey again! I've replied to your message but I'll type it hear in case anyone else is reading the comments. I've always been careful about how many sweets my kids get...especially with Aidan having the behavior issues he has.
EmilyElzbth 4 years ago