To safeword.

Rambly noodlings about a scene I did with Graydancer at the Dark Odyssey Fusion camp. You can hear his side of the story (and it is pretty frikin' cool, to be honest) on the Ropecast. It starts at the half hour point.

Showing off, connection and playing to safeword. (http://traffic.libsyn.com/graydancer/ropecast063011.mp3)

I need to say thinks specifically to Gray for undertaking this scene. Though it wasn't "fun" or "sexy" it was a chance for both of us to take some nasty creatures for a walk.

Thanks also to my Family peeps, Ava and SherynB for being there for us for post-scene management. And for not continuing to torture me. Though I know it was tough, because apparently I am quite fetching when heaving with sobs, drenched in tears and sweat and groveling. I am very grateful to have these people in my life. And thanks to JonK for wrangling Ava, since everyone needs staff!

I have pretty awesome friends.

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[twotrees517]

Sweet enola gay, Mollena! Why in the world do you sign up for something so rough if it leaves you so wrecked? Do you actually enjoy this? You seem to have not.

(I'm genuinely asking)

[Mollena]

@twotrees517 As I said? That scene was not about some light fluffy bullshit. It WAS tough. That was, as I said, the point. Like running a marathon is tough. But you fucking do it because it is a triumph over some obstacle, physical, emotional, mental. I don't know where you see me as being left "wrecked" that is an odd conclusion to draw. But we all walk our own way and one of the things about BDSM and Leather that attract me is precisely that I can push myself to endure and survive.

[twotrees517]

@Mollena I wasn't trying to be disrespectful. You said you were hurt and crying after the scene, so I usually file that under 'wrecked'. Running a marathon is an interesting parallel. Thanks for your answer.

[quotidianlight]

I KNOW exactly what you're talking about. Thank you so much for sharing this.