Every Ho I Know Says So

EVERY HO I KNOW SAYS SO is a response to the total lack of accessible online resources for people looking for advice on how to be a good date or lover or partner to a sex worker. We want to support our lovers to continue unlearning the internalized stigma against sex workers, especially in intimate relationships. We think that sex workers themselves have valuable advice and direction to give to people who get into intimate relationships with us. This is the direct message we want to give to our lovers: "We hope that this video is useful to you in your journey to becoming a sex worker-positive and supportive lover and person in the community!!! By continuing to work on your attitudes about our work and educating yourself, you are showing us that you care. We love you!"

*** WEBSITE COMMING SOON*** The website is going to include a forum and a page for more sex workers to add their advice/opinions/insight to the project in video, audio, or writen form.

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[Kimberella69]

Brilliant, easy to understand. It very much opens up the possibility of dating a sex worker to my consciousness. Thank you for your public service.

[TeeandEssYES]

This is such a wonderful and informative video. I hope that this brings a bit of knowledge or opens doors mentally to new ideas of sex work. Thank you.

[0discordia]

@unashamedInc from the sound of that smiley face it seems like the ad hoc, lighting quick decision is going really well for you in the few days you've been trialling it since your initial patriarchal knee-jerk response. this could be one of the first great success stories of how the sex industry patriarchy maintains actually improves lives and benefits everyone.

[JulianMorrison]

<3 you all.

[Presskuss]

I've just seen this at the queer film festival in Germany. Absolutely great!

[Vapourmist]

"No matter how many times I say yest o an appointment, yes to a client, or yes to certain sex acts with my clients, I still have a right to say no to you."

I love this line.

[unashamedInc]

I just found out the other day that my girlfriend is a cam girl. Needless to say I was extremely fucking pissed. We had talked about it previously and I told her that I didn't want her doing anything alone. It just didn't sit right with me. I nearly left her and never spoke to her again. However she promised to stop, only to continue doing it behind my back. I spoke to her one final time and told her that either we lay down some rules or I'm gone. We now work as a couple on cam :)

[sughrah]

Awesome video! thanks for sharing

[krw72]

That was an excellent vid - thankyou so much - great production!

[queendamaris]

Very well executed, among the many hopes that I have, one in particular is that this video will serve to help the general public realize that sex work is real work and its workers are people, deserving of respect.

[elduncan88]

Thank you so much for putting this out there. I enjoyed it very much at the Visual Story Tellings and enjoyed as much the second time. Very good resource.

[Cosmickey86]

I thought this was a very helpful video to watch and reaffirmed a number of my own opinions. My opinion about sex work has been changing over the past couple of years, and I thought that simply entertaining those new ideas was 'wrong' and a sign of my underlying "mental illness". I found this video after reading the satirical website 'Derailing for Dummies' which mentioned discrimination against sex workers.