Byron Katie - I need a boyfriend
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@poetryluva she is kinda
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any 1 need a girl
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@Gieszkanne Don't judge anyone till you have studied their work, their methods, the reasons why they have formulated and ask those specific four questions, until you know what 'turn it around' is used for. and then when you have studied them and their work, stfu and don't judge because for the simple fact that you hate it when people judge you. sit in silence and stfu.
just stfu.
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The girl seemed sweet and lovely.
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con artist
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When Katie "ask you need a boyfriend...?" That is the wrong question, she should had answered "No but I want a boyfriend" If she now cultivates the thought that she dont need a boyfriend it will be hard to get one.Maybe mrright will be felt rejected by her coolness. To be cool and laid-back isnt always the right answer or solution!Did you ever heard of positive stress.
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And – even it is not about getting a boy-friend – what do you think would attract the perfect boy-friend easier? If she’s stressed – or if she feels good with herself.
If her mind wanted to be right, that she would be better off with a boy-friend, the result would be stress. And she – as we all – could question these thoughts with The Work and could live an easier life with more happiness, peace, and freedom.
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@Gieszkanne Doing The Work is not a rhetorical thing. It's about self-realization. When she beliefed, that she needs a boyfriend, she felt lonely and left-out. Stress.
Without the belief: she would be laid-back and cool.
What do you think, feels better for her?
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I wounder if this "realization" had helped her. Maybe she don't NEED a boyfriend. No one would die without a partner, but it would be much nicer and that is what she wanted. Its more like rhetorical detour than a real help or solution!
Its not a superiority issue. EVERY human is deeply confused until they wake up out of ego-identification. The need to call someone a pussy is a symptom of that confusion.
TadRapidly 2 years ago 21
shes really pretty, what a sahme she has those thoughts, she doesnt have to proove anything to anyone, nobody does
NoUseForAName06 2 years ago 10