I'm scared I just found out I'm Pregnant! What do I do?

the Pro's and Con's

((((Parenting))))
++++Positives++++
•You have given your child life.
•You have started or added to your family.
•You can watch and guide your child's growth.
----Negatives----
•Your plans for your life have suddenly changed.
•You have more responsibility.

((((Adoption))))
++++Positives++++
•You have given your child life and a family.
•You have time to plan your future and your child's future.
•You will not have to parent before you are ready.
•You can pursue the goals you had before this pregnancy.
----Negatives----
•You will make the loving sacrifice of placing your child with someone else.
•You will not be raising your child.

((((Abortion))))
++++Positives++++
•You can normally resume your pre-pregnancy life.
•You will not have to parent before you are ready.
----Negatives----
•You are terminating the life of your child.
•You can never undo this decision.
•You will never know your child.
•You may have physical or emotional side effects
•You may not be able to conceive again

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[crazyability]

Adoption! Not murder!

[ryddelwearsahat]

@consantlychange2012 ..I appreciate the sentiment, but no thanks.

If it's a message brought to me by 'god', I'd rather not hear it.

God is not love.

[consantlychange2012]

@ryddelwearsahat I'll start by saying, I'm sorry about your abuse and i know nothing about your life but i do know that you are special solely because you are a person God created. I dont have anything negative to say. I just wanted to let you know God loves you no matter what you situation.

[KaliDemiDarkness]

@angelic6465 Well I can kind of understand why they wouldn't want to adopt "crack babies" or kids with special needs. Some of those kids can be quite expensive and take a lot of time and patience. I wouldn't necessarily blame them for not wanting to deal with those problems unless they have the means. As for not adopting normal children who happen to not be white, that's the part I get a little mad about.

[TheBoomdoom]

so instead of asking your friends or searching trusted websites. you go to youtube...god help you.

[ryddelwearsahat]

-c Yeah, homosexuality is fine w/ me- I've yet to see any reason it's supposedly bad until you run across from religious nutter who thinks anal sex causes ass cancer, AIDS, pedophilia, and for the butt to just like, fall out like a dead rubber band.. Evolution exists, too- but only to a certain extent- it NEEDS a guiding hand to work- if anything, evolution if PROOF a higher entity exists- and what does this ahve to do w/ abortion anyway.. are YOU a thumper? Or you gonna rant 'bout 'EVIL LIBRLZ'

[ryddelwearsahat]

-c All of that, as in, HER REALITY was a thousand times more important than any potentiality, even my own- Hitler was wrong, dude- the ends do NOT justify the means. Raping and beating up some handicapped woman so a 'wittle BAYBEEEEEEEE' can fucking exist.. is sick. If somehow shooting a toddler in the head would cure cancer, could you do it? Think of the potential LIVE GETTING SAVED! Or hell, let's make it EASIER- just rape the toddler- see, nobody's DYING? just being DEHUMANIZED. LIKE MY MOM.

[ryddelwearsahat]

-c MOTHER, who was RAPED and FORCEd to have me out of FEAR of battery or worse, would have been able to choose her own path and own rights, would not have been further physically damaged having me, would have been emotionally broken by the degradation of a rape punishment that was prolonged for 9 mos to please her drunk, abusive husband. Yeah, I exist NOW- but I didn't THEN. I was fucking MEAT- a developing tadpole w/o a soul, thoughts, memories- my life wasn't anything, hers was EVERYTHING. -c

[ryddelwearsahat]

-c first set of stitches out of one arm before I got caught and stopped in the hospital. I used my teeth. The second attempt was eating a shit-ton of pills but again, I was stopped and had my stomach pumped- that's SO not fun. I think you are deliberately missing the point here, b/c it's easier for your kind to ignore things rather than face them, I've come to discover, so let me make it perfectly clear for those 'dumb' kids in class- ABORTED- meaning, ended BEFORE I EXISTED. WHY? So that my -c