BPD 67: Borderline 's Friendships

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[grymmspixie19]

Because I have been able to split completely from a man who took advantage of me and held control over me emotionally for over a year...If i had not been able to split so well I would still be in an awful situation.

[composer63]

@grymmspixie19 I never heard spliting referred to in that way. I always thought of it as a polarization of love and hate. I hate you dont leave me. Black and white thinking being that you tend to situations as terribly bleak or terrific and wonderful.

[grymmspixie19]

Splitting is so painful..but in my case it's helped save me as well if that makes since.

[composer63]

@grymmspixie19 How did splitting help you? I think that is the most damaging and painful experience us BPD have.

[PrincessDisaster]

But why do you sound like we're demons?

[composer63]

@PrincessDisaster Umb, cuz, I think of myself as a demon. And to the rest of the world we may seem like crafty instead of crazy people. But I see what your saying.

[usernameisbored]

I like it"D

makes senes 

[composer63]

@MizMizzy well, you just gotta get away. nothing you can do for them. do you know samvaknin? if you don't, hwe has a page on narcissist which is pretty good. I feel for ya. god bless

[MizMizzy]

@composer63 Yeah that's true, thats why I dont date anymore, I am serially attracted to narcissists no matter what I do and I just dont believe in love the way I used to, I'm completly broken from my last/most severe relationship with a narcissist (although he was always pulling the i want you/i cant be with you game, and i was just always clinging, i mean sure i felt like i hated him as much as i loved him but even when i hated him i wanted him...) relationships aren't worth it anymore to me...

[composer63]

@MsScarredSoul :D Thank you