FTM FAQ 1 of ???

Excuse the choppy editing...This is the first installment in the FAQ video series I have been working on for a while. I have complied a list of the questions that I get asked most often. Many people contact me and ask me all kinds of questions, and I enjoy being able to "help a brotha out" but i fear that there are those who may feel to shy to approach someone and ask these questions. My goal is to attempt to help those people as well as anyone else who is early on, a friend, family member, or significant other of someone going through this process.

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• ftm
• f2m
• trans
• transgender
• transgendered
• female
• to
• male
• transman
• transguy
• testosterone
• transition

[93RebelSon]

I vaguely recall you stating in a previous video that you subscribed to the binary system. Does this mean yer veiws have changed, or am I misremembering?

[DominoAyeJae]

@93RebelSon could be an error on my part or yours. Perhaps the error was mine, in not conveying my point clearly. My identity resides within the binary system, I am male. It is quite likely that I said that "I subscribe to the binary system for myself" (vague memory of that exact line) and didn't completely explain what I meant.

[93RebelSon]

@DominoAyeJae Ok. Could you please elaborate on your point then? I'm a bioguy who identifies as 100% male, but simply because I identify this way doesn't mean I follow the binary system; I am just situated at the far male end of the spectrum. Believing in the binary system (to me) implies that you believe only 100% males and 100% females exist. Just because you are 100% male and would fit into the binary doesn't mean the binary is right. What're yer thoughts on this?

[DominoAyeJae]

@93RebelSon @DominoAyeJae blargh, apparently I'm having trouble communicating my point clearly... I see it as a spectrum, but I identify as completely male. I suppose the better way to word it is that my identity fits comfortably within societies' binary system.

[KaTokubi]

XDD All knowing transman~

[DominoAyeJae]

Lol, thank you, but I am FAR from all knowing.

[JordmanKNOWS]

I just wish I had a flat chest and no hips. Then I'd be a happy camper.

[incrediblejessen]

great video ty.

i disagree that you can't be mad at your parents for trying to squash out your trans-ness though. i am absolutely mad at my parents for setting my transition back decades. you have every right to be mad if you want to be.

[Nightcrawlerinsweden]

@DominoAyeJae thanks for an amazing video ive never seen anyone taking it down in a way that you can understand and put yourself into it as this actually. really good explenation on the gender part :) cheers, man

[xXDrybanannaXx]

Do people generally accept your FTMness and still date you? I'd go for girls if I did transition, so how would that work..? Would lesbians still go for a FTM?

[lilbabyElizabeth]

(3:22-4:24) its funny man i was kind a the same way but my mom went a different way with it, she did everything she could to make me dress like a girl but even from the time i was small everyone though it was something i would of forgotten if they started making me look like a girl but i didn't even act like a girl or feel like one and other people even seen that too so i know where your coming from 100%,And like i was the same way when too i didn't know anything at the time about FTM .dky.

[93RebelSon]

@DominoAyeJae Ok. Thanks. That's what I was askin about. And I apologize; I jist re-read over my comments and found that I may have come off a little cross. That was not my intention. Love yer videos, hoss. Keep em comin.

[2and2brook0josh]

one dislike lol

[HelloSexKitten]

The 1 person who "disliked" this video needs to realize that its 2011 and gtfu :]