Response to Q about Femme looking to meet other Femmes

This is a response to a question sent to me regarding a young woman (25, femme but not "prissy", kinda a regular gal) who just broke up with her girlfriend 3 mos ago, they had been together 3 mos and she came out to her family while they were together. Now they are broke up and she's afraid to be around her family, who told her that "these kinds of relationships never last" and she's looking to connect with other women, femme agressives, to date. She regrets coming out now that it didn't work out with the other girl. And she's frustrated because she hasn't met anyone who is her type. I take a shot at giving some advice...not my specialty at all! But I gave it a try! Another person she may want to ask this question would be nissatth

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[Ty98ink]

Sweet Pats hat - I love red

[deborahdaughter7]

This was really good advice.

[LaDyDaLeSbN]

Great advice. The internet is a great place to start. I have met a lot of peoplee via the internet and a few are still my friends to this very day. When I first came out I started talking to people on phone lines. Then I graduated to the online sites and chatrooms. In order for a relationship to succeed we have to set realistic expectations and standards, and we have to know what we want and Vice-verca. Hope she gives herself timee to heal first.

[parexcellence21]

She'll find what she's looking for, once she get's acclimated too the community.

[iTSHOLO]

YES WONDERFUL VID! sometimes my parents stil think/hope i'll stop being a lesbian. but you have to live your life right!

[sarahlipstix]

to the girl this was for:

dont feel regret, just because it didnt last doesnt mean your family was right. you girls just werent right for each other. straight girls have relationships that dont work either. be open when it comes to who you want to date. we all have preferances but sometimes what we thought we didnt like ends up being exactly what we wanted all along. good luck sweetie on finding that special someone. be patient and open. <3

[sarkazzII]

great!! great video!

[chachalish]

that's so true, just live life and who cares what anyone thinks,moving on is key. well said

[menaperu]

I came out to my parents when i was with my ex, now that we aint together anymore theyt i act like i never did it o.O BUT! i feel great about being out, relationships.... true not all last forever but i hope i'll find one that will one day.