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J asks LoveLab:
My boyfriend of 7 bumpy years is now 28 and I am 31, I am more than ready for planning children and as much as he tells me he wants them, he is scared to talk about it. He says bottom line he is not ready now and doesn't know when he will be, I respect that, however it has now been 3 years since I expressed my longing and I feel that maybe I am wasting my time. He wants us to move to somewhere where he can get a dog....am I holding on to something that may not materialize for say three more years?? Possibly, do I cut my losses now or risk in his words becoming more 'obsessed about having kids'?????

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