Love without adoption

Adoption is not in the best interest of the child. Adoption is purely in the interest of the adopter.

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[Brwneydgrl69]

Ok, so if the baby isnt adopted and the mom cant keep the baby.... what is the baby to do?? I was adopted, told at age 5 and found by age 39. I found out that "I" am a product of a father raping his daughter repeatedly from age 11 until she conceived me. Im GLAD i was adopted!! and MY birthmom DID the best thing for me at the time. I could never be angry with her. What she did WAS in MY best interest. But thanks for sharing.

[much2say1]

@Brwneydgrl69 Hiya, I am not against adoption. Every child deserves a stable loving home. Love and stability doesnt have to come from blood relation. I am against the present adoption laws. Laws which allows for true birth records to be removed and replaced. I have not long lost my adopted parents, they where my mum and dad and I love and miss them every day. I dont believe they would have loved me any less if the law did not allow certificates and names to be changed but I do know that

[much2say1]

without those changes there would have been a lot more openess to talk about my adoption and who and where I came from. thanks for taking the time to watch and respond to the vid. tina

[AmRisArt]

Those who don't want their information, that's fine for them. But those who do want their information have a basic human right to access to it.

The child has no rights at the time of surrender, and thus their rights as a human and as an adult must be fought for by those of us who are adults and are able to fight for those rights.

Secrecy against the will of the adult adoptee is inhumane and only in the interest of the adoptive parents. Never in the interest of the adoptee, who is a person too

[much2say1]

AmRisArt thanks you said that much better than my efforts.

[officerbawden17]

you want to know something i was adopted am i mad or sad about it NO i am not i LOVE my parents the people who raised me i will carry their caskets when they die one day and i still have my bio parents last name my bio dad died before i was born and my bio mom died after i was born i am i angry about no **** happens my parents raised me for 18 years i miss them i live in japan but i am going to visit them soon but please ask people who are adopted and learn there feelings instead of websites

[much2say1]

I buried my adoptive mum 2 months ago. She was my mum, the only one i had ever known til 3 years ago. I love her with all my heart and miss her more than i ever thought possible to miss a person. Wanting to know every peice of my own personal history never meant not loving the family that raised me. what should i feel guilty for wanting to know who and where i came from?! And incase you didnt get it.. I AM an adoptee so I think i have as much right as you to air my opinions and feelings.

[CorruptCourts]

Children are being stolen from parents and families that love and want them and this is evil and wicked.

Nature decides who can give birth and this is for good reason, blood is thicker than water is most cases.

Adoption should be never be turned into Forced Adoption and only in voluntary cases should children be placed outside of their natural families.

[UKDirtySecret]

Watch

'child stealing by the state' Brian Gerrish common purpose

the UK wants to keep this secret , we dont

[mylovesofmylife]

Cute reborn dolls. I have one made to look like my eldest Daughter as a newborn.

[dravenousone]

True love is not selfish.

How it possibly in the best interest of a child to live with a drug addicted mother, or in a place where they have no warm clothes, good food or proper supervision?

Most birth mothers who give up their children love them more than they love themselves. They love them enough to give them up and spare them a life of pain or life affecting poverty.

Thinking adoption does not benefit a child is very narrow minded and selfish.

[prsbes]

As an adoptive mother it hurts me to know that you feel this way. My daughter would have been in foster care or worse. She is now a wonderful, happy, teenager. She knows she is adopted and at age 18 she will decide if she wants to seek out her birth mother. Wow, I cannot believe you feel that adoptive parents are not good people. We love without caring about bloodline or genetics. I love my daughter as much as any other parent and would do ANYTHING for her. My heart is hurt by this video.

[LynxChan]

Sadly, sometimes the biological family is not in the best interest of the child (drug addicted, abusive etc,) and sometimes aren't even known (abandoned children). The idea that a child is ALWAYS better off with biological parents is hopelessly simplistic, never mind there is such a thing as an orphan. I can see the argument for open adoptions (again, not always possible) but saying "adoption is not in the best interest of the child" is so general as to be ridiculous.

[TephieSmiles]

As an adoptee, I have to disagree when you say adoption is not in the best interest of the child. I have had the opportunity to meet my birthmother, and I can tell you that not a day goes by that I'm not glad that she gave me up. She was barely 17 when she had me, she had a horrible home life, and no way to take care of me. In fact, she hid her pregnancy until she went into labor. There may be times when it's not in the best interest of the child, but there are so many times that it is.

[MsReid101]

May i ask what you opinion is on open adoption?

[SweetBajan42]

@SweetBajan42 part 1: Some times adoption is best thou. No one said you can't have contact with your bio parents, but what if they gave you up because they couldn't handle it. the bio parents make the decision it isn't forced on them. they are very educated in what they are doing ( most of the time) To say that adoption hurts the child is not always true.