I am looking for a HUSBAND! Where are YOU?

My woes with finding a mate. What am I doing wrong, where am I not looking?

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[popolodude]

If both of you are climbing, or choose to climb they "corporate" ladder, how can the both of you focus on children? Perhaps, you or your future husband will need to climb down off that ladder. Good video.

[freckles2720]

@popolodude - Thanks. Describe 'climb down off that ladder'>

[underlinedbluetext]

Problem here. You failed in that 7 year relationship. Regardless of what happened, thats just the deal. So since then, you've been building a career. This is a disturbing trend for women and for men. Your ultimate goal is to find love, but you've spend so long building a back up plan.

On another note. I have never come in contact with a black woman, of a bigger build, that has been nice to me. I'm white. I get it. But why do some black women put up such a mean front towards white men?

[underlinedbluetext]

besides the obvious.

all i'm saying is that even in this vid, you come off too strong. you say that you're down. but i cant help but wonder if you're too picky? or that you're too comfortable in your own surroundings? I don't know.

hows it going now? getting any better?

[freckles2720]

@underlinedbluetext @underlinedbluetext - if I come off strong to you then I am not the personality needed for your personality. No harm, no foul.

[freckles2720]

@underlinedbluetext - it was a failure on both of us - not just me nor not just him. It was not since the relationship ended was that the only time in my life I was building my career it has been an ongoing for me. This does not preclude not having nor building a relationship. What do you mean you have not come in contact with a black woman of a bigger build. Do you mean you have been living under a rock? Also, what do you mean black women put a mean front towards white men?

[boricua796]

and you will stay single am telling you why man will never submite to woman a real good man allway looks for woman who submite to them then they can treat her like a princes you llok like you nag alot thats another thing most of lating and black woman do that alot and we man hate that

[boricua796]

and you will stay single am telling you why man will never submite to woman a real good man allway looks for woman who submite to them then they can treat her like a princes

[TruthandJustice101]

Would you like to hear the honest truth or a lie? Well the honest truth is that men want a submissive woman. Or at least a deferential woman. That's not you, I know. And honestly, that "not" is what keeps you alone at night. You may now shoot the messenger...

[TruthandJustice101]

The #1 beneficiary of Affirmative Action is WHITE WOMEN ("women and minorities", rmember?). Black women are selected by white corporate America, only as it serves their white needs.

[SurreallTV]

ok....so what if i told you...i have just about (if not all)..ALL, if the answers ur need.....

[MultiBrenda1970]

i think you havea good point, i feel mnay black men join the military, not all, but it seems many, i am white, but i observe peopel for fun. the question is identifying activites that are black orienated, i hope it does not sound disrespectfull.

the next question is what is your your cities racial make up,

i also must note that corperations kill 2 birds with one stone, i am brutally honest but i am me. yes it has

[luvsbuffgurls]

This vid ends up at a place much different than it's title or beginning. Regardless, I hope there is more opportunity now for both women and blacks than when Elizabeth Stanton Cody and Frederick Douglas wrote their essays. Next month I will see the movie, For Colored Girls and perhaps gain some additional perspectives. I'm aware that more kids are being raised by parents in families that don't have the wherewithal to raise kids. I think that has a lot to do with what you may be talking about.

[loujencece]

Try looking in the ranks of the Army. there's plenty of Single brothas here. I used to be one of them