Emotional Abuse

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Stop Emotional Abuse, You Deserve Better.

We all know about Sexual Abuse. We all know about Physical Abuse. But, we know very little about Emotional Abuse.

Emotional Abuse occurs when one person emotionally and psychologically abuses another person who is in need of sincere affection. This kind of abuse takes many forms...

Your partner Undermines your self-esteem. He/she delivers mixed messages: "I love you" (I hate you.)

It's like pushing you through a cliff and running down to catch you.

Your partner can tell you the sweetest things and the most hurtful ones at the same time.

Your partner can also humilliate you by ignoring you.

He/she might contact you only when they are bored or have some spare time, or need something specific from you.

Your partner tells you that he "loves" you, or you are special, but he/she needs an open relationship.

Your partner bluffs making you believe he intends to spend time with you, even makes plans that will never happen.

Your partner tells you beautiful things he does not really mean at all, and will compensate your tolerance with small tender gifts.

Emotional abuse also occurs through financial dependency. One partner does not let the other be financially independent.

Or through intellectual and manipulative mind games. Abusers tend to play the victim or they take offense quickly.

They invariably put the blame on others, or on the world, or on their luck, or situation.

They acuse their partners of not understanding them, or not understanding their needs, creating a sense of lack of sensitivity on your part.

Abusers are extremely possessive and jealous. They need to control other people's lives but will never show it.

They will pretend what you do with your life is non of their business.

Abusers often have several superficial relationships with other people. They escape reality and tend to live in fantasyland.

Abusers may be described as having a dual personality: they can be either charming or exceptionally cruel.

A major characteristic of abusers is their capacity to deceive others. They can be cool, calm, charming and convincing: a true con person.

Most of the time, they also deceive themselves. They are unable or choose not to see reality as is it.

Emotional Abusers do not acknowledge the harm they cause.

Some people abuse others emotionally because that's what they learned.
They were victims of emotional abuse and neglect themselves.

These abusers can grow out of their abusive pattern and explore healthier ways to relate to others.

Some are aware of what they do and do not intend to change.

But the worse problem about emotional abuse is the fact that many people let others abuse them.

Stop.

Think.

Are you not worth of a healthy relationship?
Are you not worth of sincere love and affection?
Are you not worth of an honest partner?

Don't let others abuse you.
Turn your back on abuse.
Walk away from abusers.

If you are a victim of emotional abuse, seek help.

You cannot change an abuser, but maybe a professional therapist can.

Quit the game.

Don't let an emotional abuser put you down.

Some have a hurtful way to create emotional codependency just by telling you exactly the sweet words you need to hear.

Don't believe their words. Believe their concrete actions.

Does your partner's words and promises match his/her actions?
Does your partner tell you he/she loves you and you are special but goes on with his life, ignoring you and ignoring your feelings?

You don't need an abuser in your life.

You deserve someone who will love you and respect you for who you are, not for what they can get from you.

Even if it's just attention.

Don't fall for empty promises.
Abusers commit abuse because they know you will always give them another chance.
Don't do it.

Choose to Love Yourself First.

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[dawnofthedeadling]

I've been dealing with emotional abuse my entire life. I went through with it with my mother and my ex boyfriend. It's a terrible thing to have to deal with. Thanks for sending me this video.

[moniquemonicat]

Dedicated to the man who was in my life that told me I was "stupid" when he was questioned or when he made a mistake, and who never apologized to me, but always demanded I apologize to him even when he was wrong. As an empath, I understand you. As a child of God, I forgive you. But as a free and beautiful wild horse, I run to green pasture and to clean, pure rivers of water to find real love. I hope you find it someday too. God bless the animals who teach us freedom and love and escape..

[blubryfields4evr]

18 years. But until 3 years ago, my mom treated me so great. Probably even too good, she let me get away with things I should have been disciplined for often. But the other thing is, she also threatens to kill herself, about once a week. She's also threatened to committ herself about once-twice a week. I really think she might be a little insane, not just emotionally abusive. She can never make up her mind on a lot of things, always switching back and forth. She's VERY bi-polar too.

[blubryfields4evr]

My mother and father are emotionally abusive. Especially my mother. My whole life before my big sister started college, my mother treated her like dirt. Back then she would always treat me like a princess and my sister scum. But right after my sister moved out and started college, my mother started treating me the same way she treated my sis; like shit. And, she started favoring my sister and sucking up to her instead. My sister had been getting that dirt treatment from our mother for

[HerDamagedAngel]

My dad's been Emotionally abusing me since I was 5. I'm 15 now and I've given up. I just don't care anymore. The arguing, the harsh words, it doesn't matter anymore, I've been tainted to much. Please, if you are in a relationship of some sort with an Emotionally Abusive person, find help before it's to late.

[illmicman]

talk about extreme and over doing. 

[babybyotch89]

I just broke up with my bf tonight I did so much for him and this is exactly what he did to me idk y I believed him when he told me he loved me he never showed it he only showed it if he needed something and I feel like a damn fool ='(

[thelksis]

thanks for caring for those who have taken the "slippery paths" of abusive relationships and were left with a bitter taste and many in/visible scars...education on this field is as important as any other kind of learning, so keep up the good work!

[tatoearashiga]

@ozus2 so true, my abusive parents are just supportive when it comes to my basic needs yet i get my emotional needs from my friends..when i am at home, i feel that i am a stranger..

[ozus2]

@allison098 sometimes friends are better than family members.. xo dont give up hope..