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[keiysha17]

as salam alaikum. Wa lahowla walaquwata illabilah this brother has no islamic knowledge subhanallah akhi plz go back to the Qur'an and Sunaah of Rasual Allah saws.

Wa alaikumu Salam

[pakijanu]

I got married at 21 and my husband was 23 so from my experience i think any age from early 20's- late 20's is a good age to get married!

[pradeepnoronha]

I am certainly not a person who would date for mariage but I believe if an individual lives with rules, dating is nothing to be scared of. One has to be honest on the giving and on the receiving end. Dating does not have to mean loosing chastity. There is a reason why an employer offers temporary period before he accepts you as a permanent employee. Again, marriage is just the beginning of a journey. Better to know your co-pilot before you start the aircraft. And leave the rest to God.

[hudameansguidance]

@pradeepnoronha - yep, age is just a number. but i guess in general, ppl reach maturity ard tt age so yep. tts a gd thing to be responsible, to wna be sure ure able to provide. but one thing i believe in as a muslim is tt dating is rly pointless n just an opening for immoral behavior. cuz when ure dating smone u mostly see their best sides only so its rly just skimming over the surface. we prefer to stay safe, keep our chastity n hv firm faith tt 'the one' will come when the times right :)

[hudameansguidance]

@MyFutUrFace - ahh i know right im 17 tooo. unfortunately a lot of ppl think u HAVE to finish sch first get ur degree get a gd job! but its like hello the most dangerous part of ur life to remain single is this age! (16-21) the temptations are crazy. but it all comes down to faith in ur Lord maybe He knows tt thr are some things we need to learn first bfr settling down. marriage's a big deal indeed. n aft all, best things come to those who wait. just keep praying, insya Allah the time will come

[pradeepnoronha]

Well, I'm not a muslim but in my country, we also believe that marriage is an eternal bond. I have found the person I might want to get married to, Im 25 but I want to wait to get to know her better and also to finish my studies. I do not belive there should be an age for marriage. I belive that a person should be responsible when he/she decides. For some, this responsibility comes early and for others, late. Atleast for me, I want to be able to afford a house and a vehicle when I marry.

[ymniah07]

bro/sis i dont really think its the best really relie on those websites for a wife or husband : )

[ymniah07]

i think 23 24 is kinda to old lol especially for yemenies they graduate from high skool and that = marriage

[MyFutUrFace]

i have to say man. this interview is kind of lame.

brotehrs/ sisters. tak eMY advice. muslim match . com is the best ive come across in years and the best age is when u feel ur physicaly and mentally ready.

looking is my problem so i cant help with that.

salaam

may allah guide us to sucess in deen/duniya.

[MyFutUrFace]

23? wth?

im 17. im ready , but it sucks coz its missions finding ANYBODY. Thi sucks.!