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what is the difference between love and true love? i think love can be either visceral or cerebral. a person either grabs your mind, or your body..but sometimes they grab both.

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[akjubs]

i like sternberg's theory of love. now i do know it really is like a textbook definition of love and love is too complicated to have a standard definition. but if you look into it, real love does need intimacy, passion, and committment. take away one, two, or all of those components and you end up with different kinds of love. i think most people can see which kinds of love they have or have had with people based on his theory, i know i can

[apacowayner]

=) i think you are fasinating.

[obuporsh]

So, I must say I agree with your idea of different types of love. I mean, I'm not old by any means, nor have I been in a ton of relationships. And when I use the word relationship I'm refering to dating, bf/gf, whatever you want to call it. A monogomous state. But there are different levels. But let me ask you this. If someone who catches your intellectual eye, while your dating someone who you feel is your true love, is that cheating? Nothing physical, just mental.

[apacowayner]

i think thats flirting with the line of cheating. ive never cheated on a partner and i constantly ask myself, 'where the roles reversed, would i have an issue with this situation?'

i think that emotional cheating is almost worse than phsycial. the physical hurts, but when its happened to me i chalked it up to not being able to statisfy that person or physically i wasnt ideal for them.

but when someone cheats emotionally, its very hard to dust yourself off and rise again.

[ihavnoideawattorite]

Another one of your ever enlightening topics (no, I am not being sarcastic)! Seriously, I have vowed in the past that there is no such thing as true love. However, recently I have found myself questioning this belief (not because I am in love or have ever been in love) but because I observe certain people and think, there is potential...if I was given the chance. I loved your paper/paper shredder analogy! :)

[apacowayner]

i think its great that you arent jaded. most people write off love as a crazy idealistic notion, which it certainly can be- but it can also be beautiful..as you said, 'if given the chance.' =)

[1986sexylove]

Wow!!! You're cure....adorable laugh :-) d'you drive on all your blog thingy?? lol

[Valdamy]

having a girlfriend with the same name?

Ive been in a relationship with 3 girls who shared the same name. It was akward, specially in my last relationship, cuz we used to hang out with the same group of friends and when somedy said "Hey Alex" we were like...uhm ok....me or the other Alex? <_<

[jigglypuffgirl]

i almost died laughing at the paper shredding.

ok, do you think like this all the time or just when you drive? you would surely burn out if you think so intensly all the time?

i wont write about love this evening.....i don't make th same mistake twice.....in the same day!

[spiceforce5]

aaah i love your videos!

p.s. check out my video on queerfaqtor regarding love i think we could have some interesssssting convos about this

[JordanIntense]

You make incredibly valid points and to an extent, I agree.

But I also think love is much too complex to break down and decipher, and it's meant to be like that.

We're not supposed to figure out, we're just supposed to feel it.

You'll know true love when you feel it but you could go on for ever trying to explain it. And why bother when you've got this amazing feeling about somebody?

Make the most of it, don't waste time dissecting it (No offence intended at all)

And I really enjoy your videos :)

[SKYking1807]

you are so interesting. You really make me think and i enjoy watching your videos.

awesome job.

[Lezzismore]

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