Help me decide on an inner child to pick, a girl to talk to when I panic. To read more and comment, please click on the top Beliefnet banner to go to Beliefnet.com or go directly to 'Beyond Blue' at http://blog.beliefnet.com/beyondblue/
Go to a church/neighbourhood rummage sale (avoiding the noisy retail outlets) and pick out a raggedy-ann doll or other soft washable one. Rescue her from the sale, take her home and start your imaging-relationship by giving her a good laundering. After she dries, set something beside her that carries meaning in your recovery...a journal/picture/keepsake/broken toy...anything that's already become a focussing symbol for you. Write a note to her in your non-dominant hand explaining the object
My inner child was always there but very quiet but my child is now a big loud adult voice that won't be stomped on, that will do what is right, that now looks after her own (2) children.
I love the way you show up for us/for me. It is hard to say what you are doing right, because there are so many things, among them you make me resonate and smile in admiration. Wish we could be there for you half as much as you are there for us. Love and deep respect. Bill
first i want to say your aura is very bright...also when i look at the dolls the inner child you choose is very full. she's filled with emotions so switching to a new doll and starting over wouldn't b so good.don't know if that makes sense?i think you should keep her and heal her, you wouldn't get a new child just because he/she is wounded, would u?i think keep her n after she's healed she will look completely different.peace and love
So, he is laughing at your attempts at healing your inner child and encouraging you to get a prettier inner child? Yep, that is helpful... Gaslighting.
Go to a church/neighbourhood rummage sale (avoiding the noisy retail outlets) and pick out a raggedy-ann doll or other soft washable one. Rescue her from the sale, take her home and start your imaging-relationship by giving her a good laundering. After she dries, set something beside her that carries meaning in your recovery...a journal/picture/keepsake/broken toy...anything that's already become a focussing symbol for you. Write a note to her in your non-dominant hand explaining the object
sarita6887 1 year ago
My inner child was always there but very quiet but my child is now a big loud adult voice that won't be stomped on, that will do what is right, that now looks after her own (2) children.
myfanwyd2005 1 year ago
This was great!! All your stuff is great but this one was also very funny!
EVERYWHERENYC 1 year ago
I love the way you show up for us/for me. It is hard to say what you are doing right, because there are so many things, among them you make me resonate and smile in admiration. Wish we could be there for you half as much as you are there for us. Love and deep respect. Bill
causall 1 year ago
There is no such thing as an inner child.
EvodiusTheophile 2 years ago
:) this is cute...nice way to comfort yourself.
picciup 2 years ago
Your voice reminds me of Ashley Judd
CosmicUndeadElf 2 years ago
But aren't anorexic girls also insecure?
WhileUact 2 years ago
first i want to say your aura is very bright...also when i look at the dolls the inner child you choose is very full. she's filled with emotions so switching to a new doll and starting over wouldn't b so good.don't know if that makes sense?i think you should keep her and heal her, you wouldn't get a new child just because he/she is wounded, would u?i think keep her n after she's healed she will look completely different.peace and love
DreamsEnergyColors 2 years ago
So, he is laughing at your attempts at healing your inner child and encouraging you to get a prettier inner child? Yep, that is helpful... Gaslighting.
nileyluver365 3 years ago