Jealous- Overcome Jealousy In 7 Easy Steps
Uploader Comments (hmpcyors97)
Top Comments
-
hell im not afraid of losing her to a guy my fear is that she is doing thigns behind my back and yet still staying in a relationship with me that is my ultimate fear
-
@therealgirljpunk , why is he still dealing with her anyway? If he has you then he needs to leave his ex alone. She's probably doing it to spite you. But he needs to respect your feelings and leave her alone. I don't deal with my ex's, out of respect for the new girl, He needs to be like that too.. How would he feel if you were to be all buddy buddy with your ex?
All Comments (60)
-
The Begining of this video descrived me to the tee, I'm very jealous about where,when,why,with who, my wife is with, doesnt make it any easier that I live so far away from her in another state, and the reson she left is because of my Jealous way and Violence.
I try to change but feel like I can't, I have just recently began to look for help,.
-
k, so i am jealous of this girl that i don't really talk to but we have the same ethnicity and our parents know each other well and so i think i need to to communicate with her. by the way, we go to the same school so i see her. she is quite pretty and stuff and has A LOT of friends on Facebook. i go crazy when i see comments like "your hot" and stuff. once, a guy listed the top 5 beautiful girls on FB and she was the 2nd one! Omg, ,,,,,
-
thank you :-)
-
I'm so jealous and it drives me insane and its ruining my life I know my man would never hurt me and that he loves me but its getting worse since I've been pregnant I'm now 34 weeks and its stressing me out I just can't change
-
This is the best piece of advice in all of youtube. thanks guys!
lovindiZz: Our general advice to you is this... Catch yourself and pause when you start to think about how pretty and popular this girl is. Shift your focus back to what you can like about yourself and also to what you enjoy about your own life. This will make the jealousy more manageable and help you make decisions about what you'll do to enjoy your own life instead of focusing on what you imagine about her life.
Best Wishes,
Susie and Otto
hmpcyors97 3 weeks ago
I am jealous.. at a wrong place.. and at a wrong person.. at a wrong time.... hahahah :D = low self esteem!!.. and its NOT ME!!!
jannajhee 2 months ago
@jannajhee If you have low self esteem, start to take steps to boost your confidence & treat yourself with more respect. You can do this one decision, one moment at a time. If you are with the wrong person, get clear about what that means to you. Ask yourself- "Is it wise for me to stay in this relationship?" Honor what your answer is.
Best Wishes,
Susie and Otto
hmpcyors97 2 months ago
eresendiz234: The first thing we urge you to do is to take a deep breath and ask yourself what you need now. You are in a big transitional time in your life with a baby on the way. Treat yourself w/ gentleness & love & make sure your needs are being met. AND be sure you are stopping and questioning your jealous thoughts before speaking or acting. Ask yourself, "Do I know this is absolutely true?" Keep doing this-- it's very powerful.
Best Wishes, Susie and Otto
hmpcyors97 2 months ago
fairymairah: It sounds like you might have old emotional wounds from the past. Take the time to heal and make completions with the past. This will allow you to be fully present with the person you have a crush on or are with and will decrease the likelihood that you'll be triggered and jealous. Remember to breathe and take it one moment at a time.
Best Wishes,
Susie and Otto
hmpcyors97 4 months ago
christensenlow: Yes, jealousy is frequently linked to low self esteem. It is also often linked to past painful experiences-- like having a habitually unfaithful father. If you stay clear about what is true for you-- that you are fully committed to this relationship, you own your habits that contribute to this and you stay calm (try not to get defensive) you CAN stay open. Being open might be setting boundaries when that's called for with your jealous girlfriend.
Best Wishes,
Susie & Otto
hmpcyors97 4 months ago