BDSM Talk 4.5

A response to an email that deals with different levels of control, how i show appreciation, how i get what i want in a scene, and how i feel appreciated.

Category:

News & Politics

Tags:

• BDSM
• control
• limits
• appreciation
• thanks
• alyssium

[weaponx4701]

This is a very important and necessary part of BDSM that you are explaining now. So many novices or people outside of the BDSM scene think that the sub does anything the dom wants and there are no limits at all.

You might want to be very specific and explain what certain words (that are within the BDSM nomeclature) mean such as "scat". Not everyone is actually going to know that that means fecal matter. Great video and just keep them coming. You are great and so are they.

[alyssium]

thank you very much.. that is something that i forgot...

e. :)

[dentalomental]

This is your most controversial episode.

I think you should explain your d/s dynamics. Next, explain generically how to constitutionalize the dynamics given the dom(me).. then sub via "consent". Nospam, good point (child/pet), but teens can give "consent" but a major wrong and a hard "limit" universally. teen with teen? legal? "limit"? your thought.

[alyssium]

i'm not sure at all what you are asking me to do. sorry. ;/

[Blunty3000]

Facinating episode, thanks so much for sharing this with us.

[alyssium]

awww thank you!! *hugs*

[shannonabetty]

Another great informational video... I think I am going to keep cruising through them.

[DirtxInxThexGround]

Orgasm denial does SUCK!

Great video again.

[plutoend99]

what are some clues that a girl might be into sub?

[Femalesubmissive18]

Sometimes your Dom can ignore your safeword as well. Just because you say it doesn't mean that he has to stop right away. Example is 30 swats. He hasn't told you the number out loud. He gets to 25 and you say purple monkey. 5 more swats are not going to kill you. You need to make sure it is clear from the start that if you would like your Dom to stop exactly at purple monkey that he is going to. Just a thought.

[arabiannights10]

I think she means pretending to be a child or an animal.

[subway14425]

what would you do involving oatmeal?

[undisclosedforyou]

I loved this episode...being petted is one of the most satisfying things in the world. I have had a lot of people ask me the dynamics of a D/S relationship/scene, and I do basically answer the same way you did...Many of my "vanilla" or non-lifestyle friends confuse being a sub with a doormat..and I personally cheered a little when you said that the control(as in the limits) of a scene is in the subs hands:) so thanks.

[mattywilson]

Oh god orasam denial man that would suck. Great videos I am learning alot.