I'm too fat, Part 2

A woman's stressful thoughts about her body.

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[sakinah77]

If you think you are fat, and you work out because of that motivation, it is hatred, not loving. You can definitely stop thinking you are fat and still work out -- by choosing to love your body and do something good for it, or by deciding you want your body to be in healthy condition. Those are loving motivations.

What Katie is saying is that you don't have to HAVE the belief that you are fat, because that belief causes you stress.

[jinjee]

I agree with Katie, that it is self-love not self-control that will result in a healthy weight and a healthy life!

[GMAHIPPO101]

I feel as though the media portrays this image that if you are "fat" you can't love yourself or that no one will love you... I am "fat" and I love and embrace who I am... I don't look for someone to love me because that time will come. But I do understand where other ladies are coming from. Losing the weight is very difficult, but if you think positive, I promise you, the weight will peel right off... believe in yourself.

[missfortune777]

The Woman crying is so beautiful. I hope she has found some peace.

[sailormoongustavlufr]

She is still fat anyways... I mean she knew the truth, she's fat xD!

[dthendon]

I'd do her.

[akeru1000]

wow, this woman is amazing. She is so right!

[Throwyourselfskinny]

Sunshine, freedom, and a ugly fat body-.-

[grindelia]

omg thats really sad! hey looks ARENT everything, and if you are really unhappy there is SO MUCH you can do to heal your heart and your body. Don't give up, just start small and you can get there.

[GamingQueen88]

I cry everyday because I'm a fat, undesirable, black woman. No man even pays me any attention no matter what I do, I'm invisible. Other fat girls have enriching relationships or get noticed by men, but I'm incapable of attracting anyone but old 50+ men. I don't deserve anyone because I'm so ugly, who'd be stupid enough to want to be with me? My personality doesn't matter..looks are everything. I have given up on ever finding anyone decent, that's asking too much.

[capnbic]

woman ha you have been cotradicting your selv's for the longest time i dont like being objectifeid . but im too fat like wtf if you think your to fat you care what ppl think of you so therefore your letting youre selfs be objectified who the fuck care's if you weigh a lil more then others ppl like confidence beleve in your self thats all you need being fit is just a bonus and its not easy if its done the right way you have to work to get what you want .