"My name is Emily Pearson and I'm an Ex Mormon."

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http://www.postmormon.org/

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I was born in Provo, Utah to Gerald and Carol Lynn Pearson. At the age of eight years old I was baptized an official, 5th generation, member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I was twelve years old when I learned my dad, whom I adored, was gay; sixteen years old when he died of AIDS in our home; eighteen years old when my mother's book "Goodbye, I Love You" was published by Random House; twenty five years old when I knowingly married a gay man myself in the Salt Lake City temple; thirty two years old when we divorced; thirty four when I walked away from the Mormon Church; and forty when I officially had my name removed from the church records.

I have spent the past 8 years writing my "Exit Story" in a memoir called Dancing With Crazy slated for publication later this year (2011.) Rather than try and re-cap it all here, suffice it to say that it has been a wild ride. Early on in my life I became obsessed with obedience to the God that I was introduced to at church -- the very same God that hated and condemned my father for being a homosexual and who was, in turn (and for good reason) hated by my dad. Growing up I had so many questions about what I was taught and how things worked and the answers I was given just didn't make any sense to me. What I thought and felt and experienced in my world and knew in my bones to be true was at complete odds with what I was told to think and feel and experience and believe. It was too much, too confusing, too painful and too frightening to think about. So I didn't. I couldn't. I was completely incapable of executing the intellectual and emotional gymnastics my life required so I mentally flatlined. Not thinking became the only way for me to survive.

I had to choose which father to obey, which father to love -- a choice that broke me in two. I chose my dad and everything that his life brought into my world. After his death I frantically realigned myself with my Heavenly Father and became subject to His will and whims and myriad of "tests and trials" -- never once thinking anything through for myself, never once taking responsibility for my choices or the direction of my own life. How could I? If I allowed that, even for a moment, everything I thought, believed and chose would be in direct opposition to what I was taught at church and that could never be allowed. Yes, personal revelation was taught and encouraged - but only if that personal revelation was in absolute alignment with the official doctrines and teachings of the church. Mine wasn't and I was desperate to be obedient enough, good enough, perfect enough so that God would love me and forgive me for not choosing him and allow me to live with him again after this life.
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To view the rest of Emily's story, visit the link below:
http://www.iamanexmormon.com/2011/01/...


Emily blogs at http://www.dancingwithcrazy.blogspot.com

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http://www.mormonproposition.com

http://www.ordinarymary.com

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[Uriah Smith]

Nope..All biblical truth must be expounded..

[podoau]

"Explain to us, oh great one, podunk, how divorce is NOT a perversion, ie., not abnorma?"

Marriage is nothing more than a social institution. Ive been with my partner for 20 years and have children,, yet never married. Where does it say in science that performing some ceremony is a requirement for living together ?? More to the point, why should people continue to uphiold that commitment if it is clearly not working for anyone ??

[42apostate]

Good.

Perhaps you should devote more of your efforts toward those peversities that ruin people's lives and less about what others do in the privacy of their own homes who hurt no one...

[42apostate]

Explain to us, oh great one, podunk, how divorce is NOT a perversion, ie., not abnorma?

OHHHh!!! That's right! In atheism, morality is absent--so ANYTHING GOES!! I forgot about that atheist Article of Faith...

Your muddled, miscreante thinking is the only thing around here that is perverse.

[podoau]

correct

well said

[Infinitesky02]

Lol sounds so stupid. Why couldn't God kill just the evil ones. I'm sure there were kids and things. It's God's fault since he created the devil obviously. He allows the devil to exist therefore he is the cause of all evil.

[podoau]

Some creatard just sent me this gem via a private message

". Evolution is not science, it is not 100% correct correct thus making it a theory. Creationists accept mutation and natural selection as fact that proves evolution wrong. ""

This is why we laugh at cretards

[podoau]

Apprarently divorce is now a perversion, according to 42prostate

What a classic !!

And here is me thinking Stephanie has todays classic when she said maths where concerned with the burning of stone and wood.

This just been a great day for laughing