Where are the Parents?? Part 2

I lay into parents a little more, make a request of kids, etc.

I have been planning about 5 videos in a Basic Sex Ed Series because obviously, it's necessary. I sincerely hope they do NOT get flagged (a lot of people flag just to be assholes) as they will be targeted toward a younger audience.

No, I cannot create private videos for a large group of people (youtube has a cap on that), no, I don't feel that it's AGEIST to say that an 11 year old has no business dealing with oral sex. That belief is based on years of study of psychology, developmental processes, etc. It no more ageist than for me to say 'I don't want a 4 year olds to drive cars on our streets.'

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[MasterAlayan]

While I agree with you, Isn't there other options for making these videos less easily accessible?

I noticed today that some these videos aren't labled as having mature content or anything, perhaps you could look into having 18+ account restrictions for viewing the videos you don't want 18- to watch?

I know that this won't stop all of them, but at least young people watching the videos then have to blatantly lie about their age.

I could be wrong, I like what you are doing and I mean no offense

[kicesie]

@MasterAlayan I cannot change that. I do all I can. Youtube does the rest.

[madster908]

ur sooo rite thnks for the vid... how do i reach ur inbox??

[kicesie]

@madster908 Just message me. You can do that by going to my channel page and clicking something like 'send message'

[adpylons]

Good points. Your so not alone in your anger.

I'm not religous, but if I was a faithful cristian than I would consider the Internet to be a sin. And I wouldn't even own a computer. I know it's an outragous statement but obviously you can't solve this problem in other ways for various reasons. Think about parents who don't have the time. Part of the reason you need two parents who can openly discus parenting. SINGLE PARENTING DOESN'T WORK!!!

[kicesie]

@adpylons I know of many single parents that have done a better job than a married parent family. And your statement is way too absolute. Are you saying if the mom/dad died, the remaining parent better give the child up for adoption immediately cause one parent isn't good enough? Of course that's absurd. Thus, it's crazy to say 'SINGLE PARENTING DOESN'T WORK!'

In fact some of the most amazing parents I've seen are single parents that adopted because marriage wasn't in the cards for them.

[jtlance1988]

hey i belive the parents should be held responsable for things like this. a parent that cant monetar what there child dose... "in my openion"... is a parent not worthy of a child. i'm sorry i feel that way but the parents should realy have more concern for what their children do, and i agree that it is frustrateing that the kids are watching this, however you cant blame them it is the parents that do not censor the kids.

[nadav13algazy]

I think the whole paradigm "everythign we tell children about sex, they will do it immediately" - is ridiculously old fashioned, in my opinion. It only makes sure kids will get wrong information the wrong way. It only makes sure if they do something too early (and no, they can't be watched 100% of the time) they will be punished with disease, premature pregnancy and psychological damage.

just my 2 pence.

[charwinger21]

3/3Simply asking people their age will not solve the problem, it will only make it worse.It will desensitise people to the question and it will be second nature to lie. The best course of action(however terrible it might seem)is to simply raise awareness about the problem to parents, and make them aware of the many content-control options available out there(however much I hated it as a kid). Wow, this is starting to sound like birth control. Hmm...I think I might make this into a video response

[charwinger21]

2/3The reason why I said I was over 18 had nothing to do with sex (initially at least, everything changes once puberty hits). It was purely because a lot of the best internet games required you to be over 18 to be able to use the entire game (the best games for kids in 2000, so neopets and stuff like that). The problem was that these games made it seem so casual to lie about your age. When you're asked at every turn of the corner and there is no punishment of any kind, it'll be natural to lie.

[charwinger21]

"It shouldn't be that easy". No it shouldn't, but how would you propose they go about changing it? Personally, I've been saying that I was over 18 on the internet since I was 6 or 7 (I've been using computers since windows 95 came out).There never has been, and it will be a long time before there is, any realistic way of telling the age of someone using the internet. It's a sad truth, but it is the truth. It is the responsibility of the parents to know what their kids are doing and protect them.

[kickingit17]

@adpylons I'm the daughter of a single mother and she has done a great job raising me. Single parenting is not an ideal situation, but it does work, and single parents can provide just as much love as two parents. It's harder and it's a lot more stressful, but there are definite rewards to being in a single parent household. By saying that single parenting doesn't work you are demonstrating a lack of knowledge, understanding, and tolerance.

[skaifish137]

I think that it's should be all on the parents. Your video is up there to help and educate people. If 11 year olds are watching you have no control of that. The parents should be watching closer and blocking things on the Internet that the kids shouldn't see.

Point being if you stopped making videos a lot of people wouldn't have the education of these topics.

[iDeKlein17]

I'm only 15 , but i dont want to have sex yet.

Im not like those sluts and wannabe jb's like on my school i'll wait till the time is right.

Your like my sex ed teacher.

Thank you so much.

[826Iloveyou]

I'll be honest, I'm not "over eighteen" like you said. I'm 17 (which I don't think makes a difference)

& most of the things you talk about is good for me, the only videos I watch are the ones I need to watch. Like the ones about birth control and contraceptives. Because I got pregnant at 15 and still don't know a lot about birth control still. I don't watch any of the ones that are on a topic that isn't something I need.

[MrDiet46]

i can understand how you would feel bad but i know a couple dozen 9-11 year old who watch a lot of porn so your videos aren't to bad compared to what the kids these days are into.

[Jonahhh996]

Hey I'm 14 and I just wanted to let u know that by going to a public school, u hear FAR worse then what u talk about in these videos.... Yes I know that doesn't make it right but you have to realize younger people are getting exposed to more mature content at a faster rate then ever. All I'm saying is whether or not u had these vids up 10& 11 year olds would still b finding mature stuff. I don't think u should stop making vids because u have some really neat views & it would b a shame for u not

[MasterAlayan]

@kicesie Ahh ok, I've only ever uploaded videos of my rallying so I wasnt sure how it all worked. I think that youtube should make it possible to do thoughs like editing the audiences that can watch your video, at least then people have to lie to view it.