Overcome loneliness and the Lords reward

Everyone is lonely at some point, but the Lord is the rewarder of those that diligently seek Him.

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[Lazarusrizing]

I have a hard time accepting loneliness as a gift. I have a hard time accepting when Christians treat you like disposable garbage and then raise their hands and voices in praise of God. There is something terribly wrong about it. Something horribly unjust. Few Christians say anything about the lack of love and mercy in church. I praise God for all He's done- I love Him. But this loneliness is awful. I'm not garbage. When the world doesn't want you, and even Christians don't love you-- well...

[grkike]

@Lazarusrizing I agree with what you are saying. I have experienced what you are going through. I never said being lonely was an awesome experience. It sucks. But once you are no longer lonely and your life is filled with your own family, and their highs and lows, and all of the trials that come with children, you may look back and see that your lonely days weren't so horrible. Try to get really busy. Join a book club, swimming lessons, and keep the jerks out of your life. It will get better.

[Lazarusrizing]

@grkike. Thank you for your patience. I apologize for my outburst. Of course, what you said to me were great suggestions. I know you didn't say loneliness was an awesome experience. I caught that from another comment on your board. I'm obviously going through a hard time right now, but the Lord's got me. I'm trusting Him for healing. He's been faithful. I magnify Him. Sometimes you just want to be heard. But I refrain. God bless you.

[grkike]

@Lazarusrizing Hi Lazarus, It is ok to get mad in your situation. I understand. We are always a work in progress. Some people say we shouldn't acknowledge our feelings, and just give praise. I think we should allow ourselves the fact that we are wounded, and like any wound it is going to take time to be healed and forgive. Thankfully, the pain won't last forever. Hang in there & get super busy. I will pray for you.Remember, Jesus got mad too!

[TheBarefoot4life]

You really should buy yourself a video tripod to keep your  video camera steady ..

Just a thought

[grkike]

@TheBarefoot4life Thank you for your idea. I agree. I bought two. Somehow, they became microphones for my kids...Perhaps it was after watching Hannah Montanah. I am saving up to get a new one that is operated by the touch of a button! Sony. I totally agree with you Barefoot! I need a tripod!

[grkike]

Hang in there, it's just a matter of time! There is someone special out there for you!

[localjesusfreak]

Thank you for sharing this message! I am feeling like i'm at the end of my rope right now, when all my friends around me are getting married and I'm still alone (and have been single for almost 5 years now). But this was definitely an encouraging message.

[grkike]

@Jsmooth7444 That's true, It can also be due to surroundings, and the way you are brought up. If you are socialized at an early age with other children, people...You can also decide to change, and be more social, less shy...If you choose to. It was a decision I made in High School. I was tired of being shy! I took drama and pushed myself out of my confort level.

[Jsmooth7444]

People are born shy (not always) and/or have a introverted personality. ie Extroverts and Introverts. (both are normal personalities)