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I LOVE SMURFS!!! <3
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@Hilallamaa there are pleanty of beautifull women out there...take ur time,dont get 2 serious,have some fun and show every girl ur interested in who u are..so u find out whether they love u 4 u :)
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@MrEdogc just got your message then. Thanks for the reply I will try it. Have a good week eh
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You are right. It's simple really, one has just have to remember how it really is. Wish me luck on Saturday :o)
And if I ever come to San Jose, I will hire you :)
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@Hilallamaa: By the way, if you ever come to San Jose, California, I can train you how to become a badass. Then, you can get any girl you want. HAHA! I charge 30 bucks an hour in US dollars. ;P
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@Hilallamaa: If you feel "out of league," then it means you have low self-esteem. That is where your focus needs to be. Do things that build your self-esteem (ie. hit the gym, lift weights, etc.). When you have high self-esteem, then you won't give a shit if this girl likes you or not because you'll be so in love with yourself. When you are in love with yourself, then everything in your life goes wonderfully.
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We can't decide for you. We are strangers on internet.
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You are right guys. But I do know her, we are friends, and sort of had this special connection for a while now, but I don't know if she has the same feelings, although I think she knows (or should know at least) that I feel some extra for her.
But what do one do, when a girl is SOOOO beautiful, that u can't ignore it, and it makes u feel "out of league"??? She is REALLY the kind of girl I want as a lover!!
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I concur
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@trnjulcica: Yeah, by putting people on a pedestal, you can end up psyching yourself out before you even take the first step. Also, I think putting someone on a pedestal is terribly unfair to that person because it creates unrealistic expectations and puts too much pressure on that person. You'll end up feeling resentful of that person when they don't fulfill your high expectations of being some "super human."
Good vid! I wish more people would get this. If you think your source of love and well-being is in another person, I think you're in for some heartbreak. But if you can find the love and good feelings inside of yourself, then the universe will just reflect that back to you and all the right people will naturally show up. :D
BillyOhRayBob90210 2 years ago 8
@Hilallamaa: It already sounds to me like you are too attached to the outcome. Is this a first date? How do you know she is so "AMAZING" and the "girl of your dreams" if you haven't even met her yet? In my experience, no human on earth is that "AMAZING" because everyone has their weak points. If I were you, I would stop putting this girl on a pedestal, just relax and try to have fun on the date without being attached to the date being successful or not.
BillyOhRayBob90210 2 years ago 3