A Couples' Guide to Swinging

What is swinging? Who does it? Can it work for you? Dr. Joy talks about "the lifestyle" and issues that can arise.

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[Nicky1760jenevi]

PLEASE tell me why I can no longer find the vedio that explains polyamour relationships...better yet send me the link to this vedio at nicky1760@eastlink.ca

[loveandhealth]

@Nicky1760jenevi For the polyamory relationships video, go to the loveandhealth.info website.

[dh3st3r]

the negative comments are from those who have no idea what swinging is... the idiots forum... If momogomy were the natural state for humans, then we would not even ave words in our vocabulary like adultry, cheating or divorce. Only 3% of mamals are monogomous and none of them are primates. We are no different. The only reason we see swinging as wrong is because of the flawed teachings of men in organized religion. These same men have no idea what God is or what God wants.

My two cents

[mrmoofle]

Being in the lifestyle is like riding a Harley... for those who know, no explanation is needed. For those who don't, no explanation is possible.

Is it for everyone? Hell no! You have to have a stronger, more honest relationship than most other people or it becomes a blueprint for disaster. Luckily, most of those who aren't cut out for the lifestyle often figure out pretty quickly that some things a best left to the realm of fantasy.

[sydonabike]

It is in fact very stupid no matter how you cut it up. If you are MARRIED...then that is a legal contract with your signed name on it. If you're spouse decided to film you or take pics and knew well that you hadn't done the same,....It can cause you legal troubles; especially if you have children. They don't even need a reason other than to be an asshole. Why spend the money on a marriage license to begin with? If you have no morals , then why have a "marriage" ?

[Paradigmparadox007]

slutty wives convincing their horny husbands to fuck other women, just so she can suck some one else and fuck someone else bcz the sheer thought gets her panties wet, and the opportunistic husband thinks that his wife is an angel, a god sent, for giving him such a slack.... that is swinging.

[coupleslust]

Swinging can improve or even save a marriage....yes it can!!! Spice it up!!!

[DJRoxi]

@Huggins293 I figure the divorce rate is considerably higher. Cheating is probably worse. Cheers!

[cornel10]

@vrz07 That's because you can't separate the sex from other things. Man, there are a bunch of sexually frustrated men in this world. Do you prefer to masturbate, looking at a porn movie or you prefer something real? Sex is just a physiological need, and all the animals prefer to have more sexual partners.

[cornel10]

@dh3st3r You're absolutely right, but I think most men do not oppose because of their religion, but also because the animal instinct, to defend their female. Oops, mammals are hypocritical.

[CodisOmodis]

@vrz07

HAHAHAHA.

The trust was made better actually. Why are watching a video on swingers if you are against it? Someone wishes they could.

[enwinor]

@Germanicus666 I can see how judgmental asshattery would appeal to narrow-minded people who've made up their minds about things they don't bother to understand.