modesty vs. immodesty

A few guys give their points of view on the way girls dress.

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[aramisdiabolic]

Guys like you that judge others by what they wear, are what put schools into uniforms. It doesn't tell ANYTHING about the person. Perhaps a girl finds clothes to be restricting? Maybe it helps her to feel beautiful to show off some leg, or not try and hide that fact she has breasts?

[neecee1987]

The funny thing here... I'm not a guy. I'm a girl that doesn't always dress modestly. But I was asked to get guys points of view on it for a fashion show. It wasn't about what they go after, on any given night. It was about long term relationships. I interviewed good guys, not douche bags, that makes a major difference in what they prefer.

[lovebugg327]

@neecee1987 i agree! are you mormon?

[neecee1987]

@lovebugg327 No I'm not mormon. I just understand that dressing provocatively doesn't give you a guy, it gives you a one night stand

[neecee1987]

@lovebugg327 No I'm not mormon. I just understand that dressing provocatively doesn't give you a guy, it gives you a one night stand.

[dewyduce24]

it be nice to find some guys like this in my town!

[MiuMiuStormiGirl]

Everyone needs to respect yourselves

[lovesColdplay]

@JillMary5 God bless u! Thnaks for sharing!

[Jen321able]

This is refreshing. I was never into the idea of dressing like a slut or showing too much skin or whatever. Nice to see young men with the same idea.

[MyOttoLink]

The Bible actually DOES tell us to judge all the time! There is a condemning judgement, which we're not to do to others. But discernment judgements, and judicial judgements--made partly by what we see other people choosing to do (including with their dress) are to be made all the time.

[7cireton]

Since when has the Christian message been, "judge a book by its cover"? I wonder if these guys would appreciate it if someone, before ever speaking with them, talked about them behind their backs saying they were shallow and simply out for attention because they were wearing their hats backwards or cocked to the side

[Libstergirl74]

its great that they are nice guys in this world like these guys!

[lilmissrockprincess]

It's sooooooooo good to know there are actually guys who feel this way....

[starfaery]

This is allright I guess, but I think it's shallow, to judge so much on appearance.

[laurenoliver23]

Good video.

[VideoProductionPlus]

I appreciate everything these young men said. I wish I had good role models growing up, but I did not. I was looking for attention, the wrong way and did not attract the right people around me. My hope, is that when you see the immodesty girl, that you will show her love, talk with her, be her friend. Show her that she does matter, and is seen. She will begin to change. The easy thing would be to judge her and walk away and never have the person see God love first hand. God Bless