Thoughts on a Walk -- On Spoiled Kids

More thoughts on a walk! My mind was traveling around today!

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[HyphyG123]

you cant shun your kids. this woman is right if your kids cant trust you then theyll trust some drug dealer on the street and i know id rather know that my kids are asleep on me than out in the streets. Plus there has to be a limit and you have to instill that memory in their heads that YOU are the parent and YOU make the decisions. by the way i like your hair and your very insightful

[spokenlife]

Thank you.

[TheRealDimplemonkey]

if parents can understand what a blessing children are to their lives like we are a blessing to God, then it puts things into proper perspective. We then hold ourselves accountable as stewards. Not enough room to explain, but I hope you can reflect upon this. Great thoughts!

[spokenlife]

No need to explain. I understand. We are watching over what belongs to him. Knowing that should raise our sense of accountability.

[zploek]

you sound real cool, and seeing some the crappy comments on here, i salute you for being so brave as to let them stay on this thread. but ... if only for my sake, please remove the more hateful ones?

[spokenlife]

Believe it or not, I've been diligently doing that on many vids. Because of some of the worst ones being on this video (maybe because it was featured, I don't know) I don't always come and check the comments here.

[chrissypagebluesman]

I am a 48 year old white bloke from England and I have no idea how I came to view this(that's the nature of Youtube I guess). I don't have any kids but I just wanted to say that you have hit upon one of the basics of Human nurturing. I wish you and your family good health.

[LlanaG]

This lady is sooooo right. I've tried both, and thank god I figured out the same thing as she suggested. I have the most well behaved, well adjusted, independent kids of anyone I know, and anyone I know knows. This is partly why. Its not rocket science. Do what is natural.

Don't know what is natural? Go watch a mama cat. Guaranteed she knows more about good parenting than the "they" spoken of in this video. She's right "they" don't know.

[mainerblainer1]

u know why kids are spoiled? cause people are parenting them based on book or what "they" said. every generation up till now has been non-spoiled because they raised there kids based on what natural instincts, not what "they" said.

[jilliancnow23]

Also when you don't answer their calls they think "If I do drugs, it's on me." They take responability for their actions and realize that their actions may harm themselves more than mom. I hate spoiled brats. They're all brutally honest about their opinions as adults and they're stupid. If they're wrong they tell mom to say that they're right. You can't treat children like adults because they're not.

[CallingONMyLIFE]

@janeleone but have you ever notice when ppl sit around and hold their baby after while they start getting use to that n when u put them down they cry, because there so use to someone holding them all the time, no you cnt spoil a child with to much love, but you can spoil your child and make them depend on you for everything, but your human so your not going to beable to make your kids happy 100% of the time so you have to balance

[CallingONMyLIFE]

i agree and disagree, Yes go see whats wrong with your baby while there still babies but once they hit 1 and up no need yeah go check on them make sure they ok but if they just want you to get them out of bed then no dnt get um because they think they can do this all the time they will start think well if i cry then my mom will get me and when they go to daycare and over babysitters house they will start to think think that jusct cause they cry they will get they way

[SinfulGothicFreak]

i can't trust my mother whats so ever. When i cry my self to sleep she ether answers the door and blow up on me or ask me what the flying fuck do i want. She is a cunt period, never their to comfort me for anything. But when it my 21 year old brother who get upset over a fuckin tektekn game.. shes there!! patting his head and telling him to keep trying. My mother is a bunch a bullshit, no wonder why my brother still living in the fuckin house

[dracoaj]

i think there has to be a balance. my mother taught me to be respectful with strict punishment when i got out of line, but i was rewarded when i was good helping me to learn accountability. i had strict parents, but when i cried they were always concerned, and i remember many a night falling asleep on my mother when i was young. i am pretty spoiled but i am very disciplined and adventurous. love my parents! My mother did sumtimes not answer me while she was talking i guess to teach me respect

[iSilverwolf]

googogog mom

[crabbycakes9000]

This all true. My mom tried making me not go to my daughter at night when she cried. I told her plain and adn simple that you can't spoil a baby. That is the time that babies learn to trust you.

My mom did the opposite of what I did and we both have trust issues with each other.

[twobeavers]

Good job Mom

xoxo the beavers

[phxflyguy]

Absolutely true. I know this only from my own childhood and from being the big brother of a sister that is 14 years younger than I. We love, trust, and respect our parents and only want to do things that make them proud. Good for you, spokenlife!