http://www.stopyourdivorcein4weeks.com - Discover what men don't know about "The Point Of No Return". There are 6 stages that ALL men and women go through before they reach before the point where marriage is really over. This video explains each of these stages in detail.
@Sn4pDr4gon The demonstration in this video was of a woman, but both men AND women travel these steps.
The "reality" of the relationship is based on each person's belief. Reality is thrown out the window when one spouse becomes discontent in the marriage. You can rationalize with a leaving spouse all you want, but their belief IS their reality. It's then up to the staying spouse to hold the marriage together. I created this video to help people recognize what reality means to their spouse.
LarryBilotta 1 month ago
@TheKissesfromme What a great short story that sums up the life of the chaos kid. Chaos kids live on impulse and the feelings of the moment because their parents did. They don't care about the things that matter such as differences in age or other differences that should cause concern before marriage.
If you want some help on controlling your negative feelings, Google the words "Larry Bilotta mini Course." You need to start somewhere so this would be a good, free and simple place to begin.
LarryBilotta 1 month ago
Fell in love with my now husband at 16 (he was thirty). Even I thought our relationship wasn't forever. But I blinked and now we have a baby, rings on our fingers and a hell of alot of issues that I just can't seem to get over.
TheKissesfromme 1 month ago
Presenting the idea that the women are always taking the lead and that somehow their model of the reality of the relationship is the accurate model...is...well...shall I say "diluted" at best. Your example is like a commercial that panders to the female shopper stating "yes..the world actually knows that you are in full control of the relationship and of the man...and that man is just an oaf you put up with". If a woman want's to walk instead of working towards a common goal: See ya..Next.
Sn4pDr4gon 2 months ago
@indiag89 Know where you're at! ALready been there, I'd say I'm at lower levels now. Its really hard to get them to "get it" about our feelings, and the way we want to be treated. We are going to try the counseling thing, I think that's all that can really help. It does give a depressed feeling! Only difference, I guess, is basically I'm not in a "fixing mode," we'llsee how it goes. Timewise, mine started early, too.
Trakehner20 5 months ago
Total and complete BS. "Screw men. They are the problem because they don't care." You my friend are are neutered man.
RichardSzulewski 8 months ago
I am a wife at the confused/struggling line. My husband loves me but doesn't understand my needs when I tell him them. He thinks I'm nagging and whiny. Maybe I am but I know I falling down steps already and I feel so depressed...I want to fix things so bad. I feel so ashamed too because we haven't been married that long.
indiag89 9 months ago
I am at the snap line, in love with another man who also loves me, and the only thing stopping me from divorce is that I have no clue how to get one
DelusionDispeller 1 year ago
what if your wife leves and you cant find her?
JesusJack4x4 2 years ago