How the Narcissist Sees "Normal People"

How the narcissist sees the "normal people" and his relationship with them. The narcissist feels used and that he is actually doing a great effort towars his relationship with others.
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[myrna2381]

This does not sound like a narcissist's inner or outer dialog. This sounds like a social phobic person or a victim of narcissistic people. Narcissists seem to be incapable of or even interested in attempting this type of soul searching.

[hermit88]

@myrna2381 I totally agree. Narcissists are virtually incapable of thinking about other people's feelings and they never engage in self-reflection about how other people perceive them. Other people are just objects to narcissists. Most of Dr V's videos are good, but he is sadly mistaken in this one.

[HTFAmvs]

@daniliver gz. xD

[daniliver]

So many of you spotted the deception in this video , gz . Take a look at the big nose of this guy xD. OFC this is not the characteristics of a narcissist person , but just of a good person with some degree of autism due to vaccines trying to make friends being usefull to others.

[SherryLaneify]

their ,good' side (Ill stick to that semi-schizophrenia) hates the disappointend reactions, that come from their actions, wants to understand, entertain and make happy (or better said ,cares' and looks for people's ,real' needs). the negative side doesn't give a fuck and also gets a boost by masochistic behaviour. I think a lot of narcissist suffer from themselves.

[SherryLaneify]

think it's sth like very little time of attention they want to give to others, it's like some videogame or pictures are constantly running through their head, combined with the deep conviction that others are boring or to some extend not worth attention.

So if they give attention and even try to do sth good in a situation

(which is often giving the person a good or bad feedback) it's still much less than people expect from a normally-interested person (especially when one was idealized first).

[patriciacarrasco]

@patriciacarrasco she was like" oh ur brothers complain if buy something they dont like but then they dont tell me what to buy, im sick of them!" and she said all this w/ the most pathetic face as if they were torturing her and expected me to say " oh my poor mommy, theyre so evil!" why? because w/ her crocodile tears she always gets what she wants, the victim role has worked for her her whole life

[patriciacarrasco]

@myrna2381 i agree w/ u but my mother is a narc. and lemme tell u she is ALWAYS and forever in her mind a victim! its incredible and sick! i just shake my head at how she can destroy her kids but...yet shes an awesome mother who is misunderstood. its disgusting. lemme give u an example: i reluctantly went to the supermarket w/ her and she was complaining to the point of tears that my brothers dont like any food she buys like it was some kind of great Greek tragedy! CONT.

[gayproud1]

@myrna2381 No. What he ment was they r not saying it out load unless if he has had seen a narcissist breakdown of one. A narcissist would think this but never hardly say it because they don't want people to know. Also they do soul search because they easily attack people to them by what they wear and thinking they r speical. They would get into a relationship and swiss the other person off there feet then when they have them in love with him, then he plays games.

[TheCessnaDriver]

Yeah. Seems opposite of what the narciccist's inner voice would most likely be like : /

[brucec43]

@myrna2381 Agree, this sounds quite unlike my impression of a narcissist.

[piloooogen]

@jasnokodan ....yes that´s the point search "I psychopath". He´s actually the ONLY one psychopath which has been able to make it to psychologist himself. And why? money.... selfish but in a good way for us (not his wife tho)