Selective reduction is just as painful, if not more painful as miscarriage. I miscarried at 16 1/2 weeks on August 26, 2009. I got pregnant through IUI. Selective reduction is done at 13 weeks. If you get pregnant with triplets, you will have bonded with those babies by then, it would be excruciating to have to decide which of your babies to keep. Think long and hard when you decide how many embryos to put in.
I am sure there are so many terrible things that have to be done to get to having a baby in your positon but in our pastors sermon, he said that in the bible God says he gives you obstacles to go through to make you a better person. Maybe this will make you be a better parent / person. Then you will cherish your child more. (unlike some that beat or do harm to their children) I am not sure if you believe in a higher power but it's nice to rationalize why you have to stuggle so much. Good luck
I think your husband has a fantastic attitude, he's positive and realistic with it! Lovely man and seems like he'd be a great support to you! He's a good'un, Dawn, UK.
Thanks for sharing this very natural (and for lack of a better word) real conversation between you two. I think what you're feeling is normal but it's good to have a husband in your life that isn't afraid to tell ya to chill out. I know I'm thankful for that characteristic in my husband.
i feel like i just watch my hubby & I talk. He is the Positive one, i'm the negative one. l0l. thank you so much for making video's. BABY DUST TO YOU! :D
Sarah, we are women, we naturally worry about things. Dont feel bad for allowing yourself to think about what "COULD" happen. We all do it.
I've had 2 miscarriages and its the worst feeling in the world. I pray that you will be spared ever knowing what its like. Take it a day at a time. Cause sometimes thats all IF will allow you too.
Im with Chris. I feel really good about this for you. Look at the + of this. You have great inlaws and you're very blessed to have the means to do IVF.
I love your husband!! He is so sweet and cute!! Just try to keep your head up hun! I started my Clomid today.. So maybe we can be preggers at the same time!!! I wish you the BIGGEST BFP EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey,
Selective reduction is just as painful, if not more painful as miscarriage. I miscarried at 16 1/2 weeks on August 26, 2009. I got pregnant through IUI. Selective reduction is done at 13 weeks. If you get pregnant with triplets, you will have bonded with those babies by then, it would be excruciating to have to decide which of your babies to keep. Think long and hard when you decide how many embryos to put in.
Baby dust...
rylandsmom1 2 years ago
I am sure there are so many terrible things that have to be done to get to having a baby in your positon but in our pastors sermon, he said that in the bible God says he gives you obstacles to go through to make you a better person. Maybe this will make you be a better parent / person. Then you will cherish your child more. (unlike some that beat or do harm to their children) I am not sure if you believe in a higher power but it's nice to rationalize why you have to stuggle so much. Good luck
shannorah 2 years ago
Sarah, time goes by so fast. You have come very far with IVF. My prayers, My love and my thoughts are with you and Chris.
Thank God our husbands are here to keep us strong and support the dreams we share with them to become a family.
Smiles
punknspice1 2 years ago
He is soooo great!!!
pmjdsk 2 years ago
I think your husband has a fantastic attitude, he's positive and realistic with it! Lovely man and seems like he'd be a great support to you! He's a good'un, Dawn, UK.
dlmaldon 2 years ago
Thanks for sharing this very natural (and for lack of a better word) real conversation between you two. I think what you're feeling is normal but it's good to have a husband in your life that isn't afraid to tell ya to chill out. I know I'm thankful for that characteristic in my husband.
BettyLorain 2 years ago
awe, I just fell in love with Chris... just a lil'bit. xoxo
How sweet.
FX to you both!
MrsMelissaNewcomb 2 years ago
i feel like i just watch my hubby & I talk. He is the Positive one, i'm the negative one. l0l. thank you so much for making video's. BABY DUST TO YOU! :D
MorganLakeyx3 2 years ago
Sarah, we are women, we naturally worry about things. Dont feel bad for allowing yourself to think about what "COULD" happen. We all do it.
I've had 2 miscarriages and its the worst feeling in the world. I pray that you will be spared ever knowing what its like. Take it a day at a time. Cause sometimes thats all IF will allow you too.
Im with Chris. I feel really good about this for you. Look at the + of this. You have great inlaws and you're very blessed to have the means to do IVF.
jsandlin08 2 years ago
I love your husband!! He is so sweet and cute!! Just try to keep your head up hun! I started my Clomid today.. So maybe we can be preggers at the same time!!! I wish you the BIGGEST BFP EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
beth510 2 years ago