What to do if your girlfriend has a guy "friend." Could the friendship be something more?

A viewer wants to know what he should do about his girlfriend who is suddenly spending more time with her buddy who happens to be a guy. Is it ok to have a guy friend if you are in a relationship? Yes, of course. But if you notice changes in your girlfriend, say her eyes light up when she talks about him, or she spends more time with him then her other friends, then you need to confront her. Even if she denies it, but you are pretty sure she has feelings for him, listen to your gut. You know if her heart is not with you.

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[LoveFromBelgium]

Hi mam, keep uploading the goodstuff :)

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[psx2514]

No man likes it when his girlfriend has male friends because, as men, we KNOW why those guys are her friend.

[psx2514]

If your girlfriend is going out with other guys one on one at all. There's something wrong. She should be going out with YOU. If she wants to go out with other men, what do you have to be with her for? You don't. Just don't get into a relationship. That way, you don't care if she's going out with other guys because while she's doing that, you're going out with other chicks!

[psx2514]

What do you do about a girlfriend who has a "guy friend." First of all, you don't make her your girlfriend. Just bang her, and when you get tired of that, tell her, "You're going to always need attention of other men besides me, there's no point in me being here." Then kick her ass through the uprights. Guys, you don't have to tolerate your girlfriend having male friends. Don't even let it be up for discussion. If she insists on having male friends, tell her that's fantastic.Then dump her.

[emerson24]

@psx2514 Couldn't agree more. And you know that a woman would never tell you the truth about that aspect of their "friendship." That's like major DL stuff. I have a friend who was recently showing me this pic of a girl-friend that he was tagging here and there, but it stopped when she got a bf. They still talk and text. I seriously doubt that she brought up that its Rick, some guy I used to have sex with. If anything, oh yeah...Rick, an old friend of mine I met through friends.

[psx2514]

@emerson24 Most guys are like this even the ones who are in denial or lying about their true intentions. Knowing this, I don't get into relationships with women who have male friends because what does that make me? How am I different from all the other men she spends time with other than the fact that she's having sex with me? Plus, how do I know if she's had sex with these guys before or not. A lot of the time, a woman HAS had sex with her "male friends"

[emerson24]

@psx2514 I've never befriended a girl I wouldn't entertain a relationship with. However, depending on how they meet would depend on whether I was cool with it.

[Bfeist32]

3,000th view:)

[lawshorizon]

Yes, there's a Red Flag - Jealousy!

[refukulator]

@quitejaded wait..... your saying let her go out and cheat? WHAT THE FUCK... watch the video for Christ sakes.

[refukulator]

@quitejaded own my girlfriend? uhh... i wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who is not attracted to me but to someone else. That is pretty far outside of what i see a relationship as.