Fears of Coming out to Family

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• family
• coming out

[byepeaceluv]

I wish you were my sister who could stand next to me. My father calls me a lair and a confused soul, my mother said "God will look out for you, so there's no need to be confused." WTF? My brother is Bi, but he really dislikes me :( I'm alone on this boat.....

[Jaxluvsyou15]

@byepeaceluv don't rely on others to feel self worth. You are your own person and no matter who you are, you are amazing in your own ways. it is nice to have support but don't let anyone bring you down

[Ladanny23]

stupid homophobia that exists in the world! greetings from mexico, good video

Here in Mexico is worse, that the homophobic!

[Angielyrica]

when someone comes out to you, that means they care about you, and want you to feel the same. There's no way in hell, i'd come out to anybody i didn't give a damn about. but i was always disguisted by parents disowning children because their gay, when you gave live that child, that child should be your everything, that should be the least of their worries, what if they commit suicide and it be all the parent's fault, and all they had to do was show love. suicide is is worst than who they love

[LizDieFluffehPup]

I agree it is pretty fucked up. Ive come out to everyone but my parents cause their the super un-accepting type =/ Cause apparently its "Unnatural" or "Wrong" To be Bi-Sexual. everyone else is pretty much fine with it but my Parents, and even my brother.

[Dreamer7ist]

@deserttiger22 Thx for spending your time to send that to me. I'm now 11mon with my gf, & things are still worse with my family about it, but I'm striving to learn to accept myself, b/c you're right. At times my gf is impatience about which if I was in her shoes I would probably feel the same. The thing is Idk how to begin accepting myself.

[the5thkind1]

im not afraid of rejection from my family im afraid what thay will do to me if they find out im bi (very biphobic family)

[deserttiger22]

lol.. i guess people can be weird, my buddy told his parents hes gay theyre cool with it but he didnt stop to think that his parents don't want to know about his sex life..

[deserttiger22]

@Dreamer7ist if you can't live with yourself, then how do you expect the rest of the world to understand you. Christianity a big part of it is about accepting. Learn to accept yourself. It takestime it takes effort, you'll get it along the way. If someone has to judge you for who you are, that person isnt worth your time or effort.

[Dreamer7ist]

continuing: out to just anyone especially my whole family. But it's so hard when you're surrounded by hate which is the ppl you love. You're right, once someone rejects you in your family, it's hard for you to try to come out to another family member. My mom should watch this, but it would be awkard. lol

[Dreamer7ist]

I'm a Christian who loves and believes in God. The biggest thing I've done in my life was coming out to a few close friends & family members including my mom. Unfortunately, I had three memebers from my family who were against it. That was my biggest fear; rejection. Til this day I have a gf who I've happily been dating for 9mon, but at the same time I have a fear of accepting who I am, b/c my family has down me so much about it. I just want to be happy, & not afraid to be me. I want to come

[oursongtayswift]

@byepeaceluv yeah i hate when people pull out that bible bs god obviously loves everyone cuz he created everyone you should love who you are it dosent matter what they think

[loversarelunatics]

thank you for this video. especially the ending because i am in a position where i know my family wont accept me but i need to be myself. and i cant live my life for someone else.