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How To Easily Win An Argument, Everytime

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Uploaded by on May 17, 2011

In this in video I point out and discuss something we are all guilty of. This is important to point out because it causes us so much stress, struggle, and suffering. All of which is unnecessary.

Any time we make a blanket statement or accusation, the odds are we are guilty of the very thing that we are accusing the other of. This is because all that we are aware of really is what is registering on our nervous system, which is in our own body, not the other. Lastly, an old saying sums this up quite well: "when you point a finger at someone else, you have 3 more pointing back at you."

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  • Youtube is like a giant network of bridges, each with its own trolls.

  • You know you have won the argument when the other person resorts to a personal attack.

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  • Hey.. I understand fully the "mirror" theory when you accuse someone of something but what if its fact.. Meaning,, I have a room mate.. he smells bad. he stinks up the whole house.. IF I tell him to clean up his stuff is that because I smell?.. no.. but because he is affecting the entire house not just him.. so how would u deal with this?.. thanks..

  • Good vids man.. dont worry bout the left brain people.. they no not what they do.. they are no more than your typical dog that fetches for reward lol..

  • Your words are correct. I read the negative comments and wonder why they bother spending the time to write them. People that follow your videos believe in what you are doing and appreciate that you spend the time trying to just help people. Cheers to you and what you are doing.

  • that's something to think about,. with this being said though, how would you confront someone who is doing something hurtful or that bothers you without being hypocritical?

  • You have a reverse hitler moustache!

  • so if i acuse you of being cute does that mean that i'm cute

  • @Seth95626 no you should call em dumb asses

  • Question: If We CAN see their point of view, and understand why they think they're right, and yet they still refuse/can't see ours... Is it safe to call them narrow-minded at that point?

  • what about just dont argue? then we dont have to win.

  • You're words are right, but your hands are saying something else.

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