Relationship Don'ts

This week we talk about our past relationship misfortunes and what we've learned from them.

What have you learned from your past relationships?

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[simplayaj]

man i love your face.

[mandastarship]

I like your beanie. (:

[theredandbluealbums]

She's beautiful xo Great advice

[Roxay05]

I have the same poing chair!

so does thousands of other people, but i dont care!

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[jharker37]

@SwaffyX I have a relationship with an imaginary friend called Yeshua!. (There is no 'J' in Hebrew) He's the best imaginary friend I have! You used the word "relationship" wrong, because we Christians are NEVER wrong; the Sun revolves around the Earth! The Earth is the Centre of the Universe And our God is a God of LOVE! Deuteronomy: The Israelites, with God's help, kill all the men, women, and children of every city. 3:3-6. And Family Values in Ruth: Boaz 'purchases' Ruth to be his wife. 4:10

[TheTeapotte]

Wow. You have the prettiest colour eyes I have ever seen.. O.O

[Dirtydirtyfag]

You're so... open, sincere... honest... its amazing to see someone be so real in a monologue like this.

[SwaffyX]

I have a relationship with Jesus Christ. He's my best friend.

You, who created this video, used the word "relationship" wrong.

[robymtzny]

thankyou Jess for the reminder.. I was about to lose my head.. and myself with it for a girl.. you just made my crazy/intense moment fly away.

p.s.

youre so freakin cute

[starlasaz]

Love your advice! What you are talking about is called codependency and enmeshment. It is definitely not healthy. Unfortunately a lot of women feel that this is the right way to act in a relationship, to lose yourself, to become one etc. They view it as selfish if you look out for what makes you happy first.

[lindseyclark08]

I like your eyebrows.

That aside, I have sort of the opposite problem. I can't really change myself... or I guess the word would be "sacrifice" anything in order to help the relationship develop.

[Radiostar2323]

Great advice Jess! You are the best!!