Boundaries, Humility, and Self Respect

These are major things, which run deeply through out all of our relationships.

In this video we will look at some examples of how we easily their importance is disregarded and what we can do to shift that so we can have more harmonious and fruitful relationships.



Ex.

1. Overlaying your experience on anothers and assuming it is the same
2. Attempting to get someone else to do something for your own benefit by encouraging them to do so like its good for him or her. Example 1:

Disrespects their uniqueness and boundaries while limiting their experience by making their experience fit into your pre-molded box.
-Obvious fact is you are different person w. different life experiences; obviously their experience will be different.
-Its time for all of us to grow up, realize, and accept that our experience is our experience and our map of reality is our map of reality, and just that.
-If we want to really expand and harmonize then we need to stop trying to make everything fit into our preconceived black and white dualistic boxes.

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Example 2:
Disrespects both of parties when you are not being up front about your intentions. This implies they are either too dumb too notice or you are too manipulative too be noticed. Neither option is flattering or attractive.
-Respect yourself and the other enough to be up front and clear about your intentions. The more clear and direct you are with others, the more clear and direct they will be with you.
-Embrace and acknowledge reciprocity; realize that relationships would be like the side ways 8. Which symbolizes an open channel through which energy constantly flows back and forth.

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• law of attraction
• meditation
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• love
• authentic self
• true self
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• new age
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• boundaries
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• projection
• carl jung
• alan watts

[XXahir]

thanks a load.

[herbgardner00]

@XXahir you are welcome!

[mattbednarowicz08]

not to seem ultra emotional, but i damn near teared with this post. not because it was so heart felt, it was but thats not why, whenever you make a video it directly speaks to what i am feeling. within this past week, i've had to really check some friends who have crossed the line and i was just amazed at how angry it made me that they thought i was too dumb to see. i plan on e-mailing you with an herb my mom really believes in and i'd like to thank you for positively affecting my life

[herbgardner00]

@mattbednarowicz08 no problem, thanks for sharing! im glad this came at the right time and i hope your situation balances out nicely.

[bjanbjan]

Hey man! I've been watching your videos for a while now. Thanks a lot! You've help me greatly in the process of finding the truth.

[herbgardner00]

@bjanbjan thanks for letting me know, i really appreciate that

[Deizelcore]

Oh, just noticed you've already a YouTube partner. It is probably extremely late but - congratulations, it's quite an accomplishment.

[laurina411]

love your videos....they are the best-to the point, full of useful and eay to follow info!!!! thank you!!!!!

[terbuck2]

i just found you on you tube. very cool.

[wolkittysama]

"Virbal Diarreah on someone"

LOL! That made me "KAW" outloud like a bird. Sorry, I know, random XD

Anyway, great points, and I totally agree. ^_^ Ive been a victim a lot lately, of this sorta thing... But hopefully, if delt with correctly, I can open friends and family up to see that I, as well as them, am a different, unique person, walking my very own road of experiences and growth out into the world. =]

[lordtoranaga]

thank you sifu

[SelfHelpCollective]

Thank you. For sharing your wisdom here. Really love how you are opening up more and more, as you communicate your ideas about how people behave.

It's great that you're getting more and more 'noticed' too, let's hope it continues :)

Steve

[davko79]

This guy really has it all figured out. Awesome stuff.