Why do women keep having babies for trifling men?

I'm so serious...

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[deborahdaughter7]

Love is illogical and dysfunctional. You right. But maybe she couldn't recognize the manipulation. Dick is a powerful thang sometimes. But she had like 5 or 6. That was exteme. She need to learn how to love herself or else she is going to fall victim to the same type of man again.

[fatchickskinny]

A-freakin'-man!

[JuciusMaximus]

I'm considering the sequence of events that leads to them having unprotected sex:

1. She lets him back into her life because she has low self esteem and is emotional enough that the man fills that emotional void.

2. She has sex with him because he's manipulative enough to charm her, and because she doesn't want to re-open the emotional void.

3. The sex is unprotected because she didn't pay attention in sex ed class at school.

To recap: Low self esteem, overly emotional, no respect for school

[StayGold1948]

women AND men need to adopt a zero tolerance for foolishness policy, you got to know your worth and what you deserve. if somebody ain't right keep it movin. women want to get with a man and "work with him" or try to "mold him" chile please! some stuff you just can't "work with"

[honeegrrl]

Because women think a baby can make a man stay that's why. Women are stupid to think that a man will stay just because she's knocked up. A baby will not ever make a man stay ever! So ladies before you lay down with this man, ask yourself, does he love me, if i get pregnant will he stay? That's why men and women should use protection. Pregnancies can be avoided.

[LUVJONZ99]

@JuciusMaximus - Well said, the underlying problem with many situations in the AA community.

To recap: Low self esteem, overly emotional, no respect for school

[juliacloclo]

I read a couple of books which describe this sort of person to a T. . (including my child's father) Go and buy The Socipath Next Door and read it!!

[nowl8ter]

@Boogers4dinner that comment was just as uncalled for as ur profile name (seriously)

[BillyBobKumar]

The answer's easy: They don't know what love it, and although they think they love the men, they know that they don't love themselves. You're smart and attractive, so if I were you, I wouldn't give up on love or marriage, but I admit; finding the right person to marry is really, really tough.

[gemini19662010]

They get pregnant from these losers is because they figured that they would inherit his bad boy genes & they feel that a nice guy is not good enough to have her baby.When will these women wake up,for crying out loud?

[justlovingme]

How wise you are to discern that people do indeed act illogically when they are in love or even when they THINK they are in love. I agree completely with the post left byJuciousMaximus. Low self-esteem is the largest culprit.

[Boogers4dinner]

That's so naive of a woman to believe that. LOL Also, some do it just collect that extra monthly income and when they don't come through they're "Dead beat or trifling" LOL Who's really dead beat or trifling for trying to set up the whole dilemma? LOL The women want to collect child support off these guys because it's extra income for 18 years.

[sfordgg]

because these women are deadbeats