Can Seduction and Pick Up Tactics Work for You?

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If you're a guy, you've certainly heard of at least one "How to Pick Up Any Woman" product.

These products are often DVD or CD programs that claim to show you the art of seducing a woman by using subtle yet effective seduction techniques to easily approach any woman without getting rejected.

While these techniques can be very effective, will they work for you?

Watch this short video to find out...

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[Bobzeaux]

If you're not going to get that cute girl that you see every day at work, church, or whatever by either being a pickup artist or by being yourself, then there's nothing you CAN do. If being yourself was REALLY all a guy needed to be attractive to women, then why does the guy have so many problems and is in need of rectification?

[salesgirljobless]

These people don't know crap. Who made them authorities. Everything they say isnt new, they are talking on the level of a teenager.

[jamesgirlyful]

@energiz20 You say this but you don't even know that seduction teaches people how to connect with girls and making them open up to you.

[jamesgirlyful]

@DragowarriO What you say isn't even true because being selfish depends on a person. What these books do is that they make you aware of stuff you didn't know. They don't turn you into someone fake, they just teach you how to make yourself into a better version of yourself.

Also, dan and jenn said that you should "be yourself", but you know what, a person I know does that and he's always by himself. I felt sorry for him and taught him many things I learned from PUAs and guess what, he way beter

[Limeteaser]

Taking advice from Dan and Jenn about relationships and sex is like going to your high school guidance counselor for the same. Absolute rubbish.

To Dan, Jenn and anyone else unfairly maligning the PUA "movement" without even knowing the basics: Acquaint yourself with the concept of "inner game" for starters. Yes there are manipulators out there, but true seduction is about SELF IMPROVEMENT. It's about being your best. Improved relationships w/ the opposite sex is a by- product.

[Mpua24]

First of all, don't let the few guys who are only in it for sex ruin it for the rest of us. Second the advice "just be yourself" has got to be the worst advice ever. Guys always say "just be your self and be confident." That's like telling guys who don't have a clue to be a more assertive loser next time they meet a woman. How in the hell does that help?!? I'm not saying to go and change ur personality but being social is a skill and you have to practice it to be good at it.

[DragowarriO]

The fact is, most of the guys who use PUA strategies are only in it for sex. It is irritating, and proves that people who have more control over situations tend to abuse it for their own selfishness. I.E. Beautiful girls, guys with money, etc.

The problem is, people become so full of themselves, and they deceive themselves into thinking they are the greatest thing since sliced bread.

Also, I'd say to just be yourself; Not follow a book that tells you who to be. No one is perfect anyway.

[DragowarriO]

You seem to presume that you are the cherry on top of every guy's world.

This is the problem with how most American women think. They believe they are goddesses, worthy of worship. If I like a girl, yes I'll go after her, but I also respect a girl who can approach me. Why does it always have to be flirtatious, can't it just be friendly?

Vanity and ego from either a guy or girl isn't good, and I won't even give a stuck-up girl the time of day.

[cekefah]

your WIIPPPPEEEDDD

[rupazer0]

I agree that some of the time this is true but as a woman I do find it kind of inspiring when PUAs talk about a man learning how to demonstrate his own value so that a girl has the information she needs to be able to choose him. I meet nice guys every day who I would have considered dating if he was capable of flirting with me, and these are the guys that really need to learn the techniques. He doesn't have to lie, but he needs to demonstrate the truth to a much more appealing extent.

[Mpua24]

im glad somone agrees with me

[Mpua24]

whoa whoa hang on, FAKE self confidence??? since when is learning how to be confident fake? and since when do any of the pick up gurus teach u to not be urself? u guys really need to read and understand the material before u post somthing like this.