Families are not what they always seem to be. Following my father's stroke on Feb 4th 1999, I put my life on hold and arranged to be by his bedside and looking after his affairs as soon as possible. It took me three days to sort myself out and travel 200 miles to be with him. My sister who had a four week holiday booked for March which she arranged the previous year made no changes apart from extending her holiday for a fortnight and taking over her father's bungalow making it perfectly clear that I was not welcome during that time, despite the family crisis. While she was in charge of his bungalow she chose to sell some of his belongings, lie to me about how much she'd received but admitted to using the money to live on. I knew she was lying when I asked her how much she'd received for an Edwardian Tallboy and she paused for a few seconds as she tried feebly to think of a credible sum, assuming stupidity on my part, and came back with "Fifty Canadian dollars" !!! Yeah right since when have english furniture dealers paid for items in Canadian dollars ??? I later discovered that at the time Edwardian tallboys were retailing in the region of £1,000 each. When I suggested I arrived the night before she was due to depart so we could have a family evening together she said over the phone "That's not a good idea"! Clearly she didn't want me to find out exactly what she'd been up to in my absence. The first thing I noticed after her son, my nephew who has nothing to do with me anymore, had driven her away swiftly after my return was that she had emptied all the frames that had been filled with enlarged family photographs. One of the first repeated words that came out of my father's mouth as I returned to him following the two weeks absence was 'Will, will'. He had a severe speech impediment following his stroke but was not completely incoherent nevertheless I had much higher priorities than to sort out a new will which is why I didn't attend to his wishes until July after moving him down to Cornwall and sorting out the more important things in his life.
On August 2nd 2002 my father died following a fall he'd suffered earlier in the year. When I informed my sister that he'd changed his will she refused to accept it and wrongfully accused me of forcing him into changing his will. She then emailed me demanding that I make a will out leaving everything to her but then, true to form, she 'changed her mind' and decided to try and force me into signing over half of my home to her. When I refused she then found a lawyer to do her dirty work for her. I chose to stand my ground rather than dishonour my father's will, not to mention the fact that submitting to her foul claims would be an admittance of guilt!
Clearly my dad wanted to change his will following his only daughter's abysmal behaviour after his stroke and he left her enough rope to hang herself with, the wise old dog, in the form of a £1,000 legacy which she rejected in order to try and ruin my life.
The only one of three nieces I have who has spoken to me since my father's death insists it's nothing to do with her!!! Her mother has 3 daughters from two fathers, not two from her current marriage as she publicly declares to her friends, not to mention the son she has from yet another father whilst hypocritically stressing the importance of family as this video will clearly demonstrate.
This is the truth and I have the emails, recordings, legal documents and letters to prove it.
MissCytko posted on 22nd Dec 2010:
You are the one who has pushed out your family. Every story has two sides, and what you forget to mention is how my mother dropped the case against you, because she realized that family is more important than material possessions, and that gift basket was an attempt to try and make contact with you, but being the bitter bastard you are you filmed at threw it back in her face. I want you to remove this video for I don't want I don't want to be a part of it.
cytkovictim 11 months ago
On 21st December 2010, youtube member 'rainbow6734' posted the following:
'Please remove this slander of a family from a person who needs help. '
She then sent me a message which reads:
"I will always love you"
No prizes for guessing who this sicko is once you've watched the above video !!
cytkovictim 11 months ago
I really hope everything turns out well, buddy.
DrPepx 11 months ago
@DrPepx Thanks but sadly the only way things can move forward is when my sister confesses to fabricating false allegations about me and informs my family that it was her hateful & greed fuelled emotions which got the better of her and motivated her into a hate fuelled frenzy of bullying to conceal the fact that her father chose to change his last will and testament probably as the result of her appalling & selfish behaviour following his stroke. She insists that she loves me, how sick is that???
cytkovictim 11 months ago