Should Christians Date Unbelievers?

Is it ever okay to date an unbeliever? what if a person is not a believer but has good morals and is a good person, can a christian date them then? what is it to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever? what does the bible say about the issue?

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[TripleAgent83]

You just told Christians not to be Christians @ 9:48

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@TripleAgent83 i didnt tell Christians not to be Christian, I was simply trying to get the point across that if you are not willing to submit to the word of God and the kind of lifestyle we are supposed to live as christians then you might as well not claim to be one. if you are a new creature then it should be obvious by leaving behind the life of sin. Ok maybe i could have used better words but dont try and twist what I was trying to say. Thats not cool - look at it from the context!

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@TripleAgent83 its interesting that people are looking for flaws in the message rather than hearing the heart with which it is being said - lets be mature people!!

[NightHawkBomber001]

Honestly this just seems like shallow advice, Hows the break up going to go?

“Honey I love everything about you... except you don’t share my beliefs... I know it seems somewhat shallow to want you to change even though your respectful and understanding of my beliefs and love me. You are a wonderful person but.. well I’m light and your darkness the two just don’t mix...”

I’m not sure how you make two categories (light and darkness) where there are some “unbelievers” who are indeed very good.

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@NightHawkBomber001 I dont make the two categories, the bible does and darkness simply refers to anyone who hasnt accepted christ because they remain in the dark about the deception of the enemy and how the enemy has tricked mankind out of what God originally intended for us - bringing mankind into a state of darkness. Jesus came to restore what the enemy tricked us out of and give us back the light - knowledge of our rightful position and Godly inheritance

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@matapaga First of all, let me clarify that what I share is not my opinion, it is the word of God, I share what the bible says, so in essense if you are saying that I am wrong you are indirectly saying that God and the word of God that christians believe is wrong. Secondly, being a christian is not just about being moral and doing good things, its about submiting your life to Jesus so that you can be reconnected with God and become Gods Child. I dont mean to condemn anyone if I do I apologise.

[NativeSoulful]

Thank you so much for this! its very helpful. I agree that we do settle sometimes because we don't wait on the Lord. Thanks and keep up the videos!

[blackxmj]

Hay are mormons considerd none believers

[feminineandfeisty]

Alot of times there is no difference.  "Saved" men can be just as shallow and full of lust as an unsaved man. OR if the man IS suposed to be truly saved, alot of times they just straight ignore the saved women and go for the unsaved hoeish type women. So when the saved women find a man who is a good man, even though he's not saved, I say go for it. I've been married for over 20 years and my husband is not saved. But is a very good husband and father.

[MoonLioness25]

@Mrbaltimore2001 what u said is truly possible... ck out my video on this very notion of being unequally yoked even with other "Christians"

[MsSejoyma]

Also...it is an impossibility to understand the life and walk of a Holy Ghost filled person, to try and even compare it with an unsaved person. Jesus, that walked this earth lives inside each person who has been TRULY saved. We don't compare a "nice" person with a Holy person. It is non-comparable. The spirit of Christ in us has made us a NEW creature, not a better nice person. So there's an astronomical life difference in the saved vs. the unsaved. And again, He warned us of doubtful disputes..

[Mrbaltimore2001]

I'm saved, and have also grown up in the church. Through out the course of my life (29 years old), having visited both small, large, and mega churches. What I have found is a lot of "saved" people are just to super spiritual.

I've done work in the church, and have worked around saved people in Chirst, and many us are just as jacked up, as those who have not accepted Christ.

[yourgoodfrienddave]

@matapaga you are trying to go off your own rightness you can not get to heaven with out having a relationship with Jesus Christ. God's rightness and ours rightness is nothing when god looks a ust if you lie, cheat,lust,greedy, drunkenness, you do this one time you would still go to hell my friend it is also written Isaiah 64:6 But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away.