Ask SSL: He's Scared to Make Me His #1

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[UTubeuzername84]

girl he aint scared, he just does not want you to be his #1....men go after what they want, ur not his girl because he doesn't want u to be his girl, if he met a girl today that he was really feeling trust he would do WHATEVER it took to make that girl his. This dude is trying to run game on u..move on, I know you wont but you should. and honestly you should be ashamed of urself for dealing with a guy who already has a girl...if u 2 were to enter a relationship u think hes gonna be faithful 2 u?

[mstiaradean]

From the beginning I would have walked away. He has commitment issues that run deeper than you can fix. What happens if she becomes his girl friend and he finds someone "better" than her? I believe this whole thing began kinda wrong. Maybe after he becomes a single man, they should take a step back, be friends, and take it molasses SLOW! It sounds like she really cares for him and he cares for her but he is a selfish man. He is too worried about being hurt to completely give himself to her.

[lataluv33]

If you start out being the other woman, you will never be the only woman. Any man that would leave one relationship to begin another is not relationship material. Any woman that would ask a man to leave is not relationship material.

[UTubeuzername84]

@brnize1969 thank you...it really saddens me to see so many of my sistas with such low self esteem...any woman who thinks anything of her self knows she deserves to have her man to herself, this is just ridiculous.

[brnize1969]

@UTubeuzername84 very well said

[leatha2000]

girl you better unclose your eyes and walk into this with open eyes. Y would u waste your time putting your heart and feelings into something that is dead end. Even if he does choose to be with you how do you know he's not gonna do the same thing to u that he's doing to his girl now. He wouldn't be there if he didn't want to be there. This is a red flag. Always look for the red flags and this can be achieved by going into the situation with your eyes open. It never fails.

[AmbitiousHarley]

If he wanted you to be his number one he would make you his number one. Forget all the excuses.

[nalia1908]

I agree with some of the others. If this guy really wanted to be with her, he would do what he needed to do to have her, AT ALL COST! Especially at 33. He is running game and if he isn't she needs to make him respect her and let him know she is worth it. If he doesn't see it now, he won't see it later!

[Nerdstradamas]

First off, his letter didn't sound like it was written by a 33 yr old. Something about it felt juvenile. He tries to make it sound like she has all the cards and is the only one capable of doing the heartbreaking - manipulative. He's getting all overly romantic rather than being real. Plus, how can someone who has been so cold towards women suddenly get a sensitive side? He is playing all hands to make this woman another one of his conquests. I think he is the type to constantly feed his ego.

[Niafloda]

I think it is a bad idea to consider this guy. There r other men that will respect you.

[411blah411]

I don't see why this question is a question. As soon you found out he was in a relationship all ties should have been cut. No if ands or buts. I don't care how persistent he was. I don't understand why women date a man in a relationship and then think he'll be faithful to them. What sense does that make? Even if he says he doesn't care about his gf. The fact that you were willing to be the other woman tells him that it's ok to cheat on you later because you're ok with other women being involved.