Lowering the Gaze - The cure (part 1 of 6)

2nd part in the 'lowering the geiz' series by Sheikh Feiz - Australia

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Education

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• islam
• Sheikh
• Feiz
• Australia
• women
• muslim
• man
• brother
• sister

[AfghanpowerNL]

This is the only thing that's so difficult for me, and I am so afraid that it will lead to my distruction. Oh Allah swt, help me please. I don't want this anymore, I just want to be your good servant and believer, please help me Allah swt.

[SIKM4N]

if one can not get married then fast..Inshallah

[tairanman]

@5graffitiartist5

Yes its difficult but there are solutions...you can sit next to a male in your computer designing class,and otherwise keep your gaze down while you're at school....Allah always makes a way for his true believing servants...may Allah make it easy for you...Ameen.

[domaap3000]

@Cepter Yes, that is the case in Melbourne and probably everywhere in the world right now. Both women and men are marrying much later in life. Women are naked and men have shaved their beards. And from that you could guess which way their characters and morals are heading too...

[Cepter]

Where I live in Australia (Sydney, to be exact) even the term marriage is offensive and increasingly become a taboo among women (yes, even a number, Allahu alim how many, of the Muslim ones too) in my society! I'd rather see naked women who want to marry, then naked women (like here) that compound the fitnah by refusing to marry (EXCEPT: if you are an employer). Aohzubillah!

[Cepter]

@5graffitiartist5 Then it's impossible, in your case, obviously. So as a consequence of being put in environments where the female nakedness is everywhere around you, insha'Allah the prohibition is exempted from you by virtue of being outside your control. Only thing you can do, in this case, is be patient. Are there are any one among them who are suitable for marriage? At least women in America generally aspire marriage, so don't miss the opportunity if it comes to you.

[faizi786]

May Allah give me strength



[sarahapril9854]

@5graffitiartist5 its like that everywhere unfortunately. And everyone is hardly dressed. Look passed, don't stare. If you see by accident, look away. Strengthen your iman and aim for Jannah, not the life of this world.

[5graffitiartist5]

salaam

how can i lower my gaze when i go to a free mixing highschool in america and i am 16 by the way.

girls are every in the school, look left, right, up, down everywhere. i have to sit next to one during my computer designing class.

so advice and please make dua for me for the angels do the make the same dua for you.

salaam.