Happy birthday Conor Clapton

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Uploaded by on Aug 17, 2010

After I uploaded ''my last video for a while''. I realized it's Conor's birthday on saturday (August, 21) And I thought noo I have to make him a video before I go on holiday so Here's official my last video for a few weeks :(

Conor was born on August 21, 1986 into the loving arms of singer Eric Clapton & his wife Lori Del Santo. When Lori got pregnant and since Eric was English, she felt the baby should be born in England. When the day was there and Lori was brought into labor. Eric rushed to the hospital to visit Lori and being with her at the birth. As it happened, the baby got stuck upside down, so they had to perform a last-minute Cesarean. When the baby finally came, they gave him to Eric to hold. He was spellbound, and he felt so proud, even though he had no idea how to hold a baby.

But however deeply Eric loved this little boy, he had no idea where to begin with him, because Eric was a baby trying to look after a baby. So he just let Lori raise him, which she did brilliantly. She would come and stay with her sister Paola, who also worked for her as her assistant, and occasionally their mother accompanied them, and for a few weeks they would live a very peaceful, family kind of life. Eric used to watch Conor's every move, and because Eric didn't really know much about how to be a father, he played with him in the way a sibling plays, kicking balls around on the terrace for hours and going for walks in the garden. Conor also got to know Erics mother and grandmother, and Roger too. Anyone who came into contact with Conor adored him. He was a little angel, really—a very divine being.

When Conor was four, on the evening of March 19, Eric went to the Galleria, an apartment block on East 57th Street, where they were staying, to pick up Conor and take him to the circus on Long Island. It was the very first time Eric had taken him out on his own, and he was both nervous and excited. It was a great night out. Conor never stopped talking and was particularly excited at seeing the elephants. It made Eric realize for the first time what it meant to have a child and be a father. Eric remembers telling Lori, when Eric took Conor back, that from then on, when Eric had Conor home on visits, Eric wanted to look after him all on his own.

But then the next day (March 20, 1991) four year old Conor, died on impact after a fall from the 53rd-story window of his mother's friend's New York City apartment, landing on the roof of an adjacent four-story building. The main sitting room had windows along one side that went from floor to ceiling, and they could be tilted open for cleaning. On this morning the janitor was cleaning the windows and had temporarily left them open. Conor was racing about the apartment playing a game of hide-and-seek with his nanny, and while Lori was distracted by the janitor's warning her about the danger, he simply ran into the room and straight out the window. He then fell 49 floors before landing on the roof of an adjacent four-story building.

That day Eric was up early because he had to pick up Lori and Conor and take them to the Central Park Zoo. At about 11 a.m. the phone rang, and it was Lori. She was hysterical, screaming that Conor was dead. Eric thought to himself, This is ridiculous. How can he be dead? And he asked her the silliest question: "Are you sure?" And then she told him that he'd fallen out of the window. She was beside herself. Screaming. Eric said, "I'll be right there."

Lori was not about to go down to the mortuary, so Eric had to identify him on his own. Whatever physical damage he had suffered in the fall, by the time Eric saw him they had restored his body to some normality. Eric remembers looking at his beautiful face in repose and thinking, This isn't my son. It looks a bit like him, but he's gone. He went to see him again at the funeral home, to say good-bye and to apologize for not being a better father.

After the funeral, when Lori's family had all gone home and Hurtwood was quiet and it was just Eric alone with his thoughts, He found a letter from Conor that he had written to Eric from Milan, telling Eric how much he missed him and was looking forward to seeing him in New York. He had written, "I love you." Heartbreaking though it was, Eric looked upon it as a positive thing.


Clapton's grief was expressed in the song "Tears in Heaven''.
Written for his son.

Happy birthday in heaven Conor!

SONG: AN ANGEL
ARTIST: DECLAN GALBRAITH

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READ HERE THE WHOLE STORY: http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2007/11/clapton200711

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Uploader Comments (sharon1110rakker)

  • This is so sweet!!! He was adorable! That poor baby! He seemed sooo happy!

    I cant imagin having such a sweet little boy and then loosing him like that! SO SAD!!!!

    Beautiful work<3

  • @HeavensSweetHearts

    thanks so much, No I really can't imagine too!!!

    I've been so touched by his story :(

    and he looked like very kind too he wrote his dad a letter just days before he

    died, he wrote: ''I miss you daddy, I can't wait for you to come over & I love you''

    how sweet is that <3

  • aww:) Beautiful viedo! x Is there an age proggresion of him because he would now be 20!

  • @Shells122

    thank you :)

    Uhm no, not that I know of.

    Mostly people make age progressions of missing children but I'm sure if he was alive he would be beautiful :D

    x

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  • que garoto lindo que dó.

  • @Carlislesbeloved I cried, too. It was so sad hearing the real story about Conor's death. This is one of the most saddest things that I've ever heard in my life.

  • When I saw this video it broke my heart...broke my heart to see Conor's face and his smile. I did not knew the whole story and I started to cry when I read the entire story. ;( He was so adorable! It was SO sad that he had to die that tragic death. He's an angel among angels.

    ~~God bless you Conor~~

  • @sharon1110rakker

    god bless you conor its so sad the way conor died i wish that conor din't die that tragic death but me conor would still bein this world and sometimes i feel that im a mistake and i should not be here y din't i die instead of conor CONOR COME BACK

  • god bless you conor its so sad the way conor died i wish that conor din't die that tragic death but me conor would still bein this world and sometimes i feel that im a mistake and i should not be here y din't i die instead of conor CONOR COME BACK

  • Reading his story made me tear up. I knew who he was before I saw the video and I knew what had happened but I didnt know the entire story. He looks like such a wonderful kid and im sure he would have been a wonderful person if he had gotten a chance to grow. Thats just so heartbreaking. Happy birthday little prince.

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