Ask SSL: How to Mend a Broken Heart

We've all been through it and most of us have survived. Share some of your tips on how to mend a broken heart.

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[TheRenjiabari]

1 dislike dumb haters ssl gives great advice

[SheSingsLovely]

@TheRenjiabari lol thanks! :o)

[411blah411]

Excellent advice per usual. It is very important that you allow yourself to be human. It took me a long time to realize this. I would be angry that deep down I needed time to get over it. I felt that they weren't worth any of my time at all (cause this person was conniving) so I'd do my best to ignore it. I was wrong and once I allowed myself healing time, I felt great. It's true that the greatest revenge is to live well, because I saw him later and he couldn't get over how well I was doing =)

[SheSingsLovely]

@411blah411 "Live Well" that is great advice! No need, to try to take revenge in your own hands. Things always play out on their own! Thanks for sharing!

[bananakazana]

thank you for this, such good advice :)

[JustSynetta]

Great advice. One thing that I've learned is rehearse the situation. Never go on or move on without asking yourself some key questions. What did u learn about yourself? Is there anything u need to change. Maybe u pick bad...find out why. Ask yourself hard questions...we all need to grow. This helped me out when I dealt with broken hearts.

[kdharri2]

Great advice! I allow myself to deal with it for a few days, after that, i get back up, throw myself into things that are productive

[TheRenjiabari]

@SheSingsLovely your advice helped me :)

[MamacitaNatural]

That was a good point about the person who ultimately rejected him atleast being honest instead of trying to be misleading/conniving, etc. I personally experienced the latter in my last relationship and let me you, it's not cool at all. The guy should atleast be happy that the girl had the decently to be honest about her situation and not try to use and manipulate him b/c believe me, there are ppl out here w/ no moral character that would do just that. Count ur blessings...

[nerdynap]

Sage advice!

[Greynutable]

Kickboxing, Cry & Scream, Ice-cream, Cry & Laugh, Sleep, Cry, Chinese food, Cry (happy tears), Yoga/Mediation and KNOWING/REALIZING YOUR SELF WORTH!

The key is balance, recognize your feelings, recognize the reality (end of relationship, you are still 100% wonderful with or with this person), and you know that you will survive.

Where you are today, certainly wasn't the same place you were last year and it won't be the same tomorrow.

[anapena512]

Hey girl its like you are in my window and watching my life i just broke with my bf of 5 yrs today and my heart is completely broken right now .... I am just trying to get myself back in order....