smacking children

smacking children

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[littleluke011]

we a kids and my dad belts me and my brothers so so so so well hard but he always tels us what we have dun to get it and we do not think he is a bad dad to us just striked we evan think kids shud be smacked cus we can be reel pains ha ha but he always tels us he loves us  and he a reel good dad to and awer mum soft ha ha

[SuperDessibaby]

I have been a parent for nearly 7 years and never once have I had to punish my 3 children

[gorillas400]

@Indiananm instead of making assumptions like that, try actully making a decent point, such as, choosing how to parent your kids is a natural right to have, thats a good point because humans are the only species who have others constantley bugging them about how to parent correctly, i still dont agree with spanking though -_-

[Indiananm]

As a child I was spanked, and I turned out fine. Before my mother spanked me she would ask if I knew why I was being spanked, and I always knew. I was spanked a handful of times because I quickly learned not to misbehave. There is a difference between spanking and beating children. Most people in my age group that were spanked turned out fine, it was the ones who weren't spanked that rebelled and caused issues for their parents.

[KaelaBz]

there is no perfect parenting guys. Get over it, some parents prefer spanking some dont.

[mamavanR]

@spongebobcrazy123 I judge anyone who spanks his/her child. I believe it's wrong and I've got loads of studies behind me, supporting that believe, Children who got spanked, are more likely to become criminals than children who were allowed to make mistakes, withouth the fear of corporal punishment. Your child will probably do the same bad things any child does, only behind your back. That's how a sneaky criminal mind usually starts. I've never hit my kids, to give them the best chances in live.

[gorillas400]

@spongebobcrazy123 you need help with your parenting -.-

[spongebobcrazy123]

@mamavanR spanking is not beating to death! i said abuse is beating to death and burning and all the crap i said thats abuse i never said it was ok but its not wrong to spank your child! and duh it humiliates them! thats the damn point! when they act up you spank them then they learn a lesson! they get a red mark not a bruise so calm the fuck down! i spank my child any time she does something that she knows is wrong so dont judge!

[mamavanR]

@littleluke011 I hate to tell you this, but: a dad who belts his kids, isn't a good dad. Good parents keep their cool and find humane ways to punish their children. Just so you know...

[mamavanR]

@KaelaBz And you think that was okay??? It did have some effect on your brain then, didn't it?

[mamavanR]

@spongebobcrazy123 First: have you looked it up yourself? So if you beat them nearly to death, it isn't abuse? That's a strange way of thinking...

Second: it ís wrong to spank a child. You humiliate and hurt them, with what purpose? Study shows that children who are victims of corporal punishment get more creative in hiding bad behaviour and therefore, they are more likely to become criminals than the children who were allowed to make mistakes, without the fear of being beaten.

[spongebobcrazy123]

you really need to look up the word "ABUSE" on here! abuse is beating them to death! burning them or starving them! and even killing them! but a swat on the but is NOT abuse! its not wrong to spank your child! ITS YOUR CHILD! do what you wish when they are bad...