Insights on Cheating/Infidelity
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@strongarmeric No problem. Feel free to write me directly if you want to process this more.
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@UnificationDotCom Thanks ill take that in mind!!
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@strongarmeric On a sociobiological level we're programmed to "spread our seed" and impregnate as many women as possible. That's how humans became so "plentiful" on the planet. As we shift from biological-identity to values-based individuals we stop lying...so cheating is no longer possible. If you want to break up with your girlfriend because you're not ready for monogamy, that's okay. Just don't lie to her if you respect her at all.
Peace,
Chris
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My question is why do i feel like cheating on my girlfriend with a younger girl i fooled with about 4 years ago, i love my current girlfriend to death, but i cant stop thinking about this other person, and i dont think i can control these feelings im 23 pls help!!
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@amanda21x0 Thank you for your kind feedback.
I think cheating is the result of both people in the relationship. One person manipulates the other by using guilt, the person full of guilt feels they're a bad person hence, a self fulfilling prophecy
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Ty98ink 10 months ago
@Ty98ink In my experience the person who cheats has to take responsibility for their own actions. If the other person is perceived as "pushing them to it" then they always have the option to leave the relationship/be honest.
UnificationDotCom 10 months ago
It started off in my life that I was the one who always got cheated on,it became devastating,my self image became very distorted.I became involved in some very unhealthy relationships thinking if I tried harder,dressed better,lost weight etc that I wouldn't get cheated on again,it doesn't work.I lost love for myself,lost trust in society,suffered depression and even tried to commit suicide a few times.If your cheating/being cheated on,in the end no one is happy.counseling has really helped me.
porsalainheart 1 year ago
@porsalainheart Thanks for sharing about your past. I'm glad that counseling helped. I've found that when I trust in myself and trust in my path in life, being let down by others is less painful. In other words, I want to keep an open heart, while never becoming dependent upon another's actions for my happiness...since that is giving away my own power.
UnificationDotCom 11 months ago