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Uploaded by on Jul 25, 2011

http://www.TooShyToDate.com Go here to get everything I know about easily meeting new women and enjoying the process.

My name is Stephan Erdman. My facebook page is at http://www.facebook.com/tooshytodate

I help men get great at meeting women and enjoy the process. I've created a number of programs that help men achieve their goals with women. Meeting women is one of the biggest challenges for many men. And starting a conversation seems to be the hardest bit.

So like described here it is a huge advantage (and I recommend it) to first have eye contact with a girl. In fact in my life I always go from eye contact or some other non verbal communication because it's the first step in figuring out what she's like. After all why would I wanna talk to a girl that's not responsive or friendly. In this video I explain one of my key secrets to start off conversations with women.

If you get this wrong you're going to make her get nervous and formal and talk to you like a stranger. So follow the advice in this video, please. If you like this you will love what I've got at http://www.TooShyToDate.com I am going to teach you everything I know about how to easily meet women and feel great in the process.
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How To start a conversation with a girl who's giving you signs: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7yYoR7JEAMc

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  • Am I the only one that thinks "hey i see you all the time, what's your name" seems a little creepy, or is the fact that the circumstances are that the girl wants you to make the move (and the fact she remotely knows you from multiple indirect encounters), make it not creepy?

    Just curious.

    I'll go with your flat out "hey."

  • @Da1RiSiN1sMoKe just noticed your comment. Obviously there's 5 billion ways of starting this. But just to explain....I think I said: Hey, i see you all the time, SO what's your name? which is slightly different. subtext first part: the "hey I see you all the time" is a shared experience between you and her, you both know it's true. It creates common ground. "so what's ur name?" says: Because we meet all the time, I should at least ask you who you are, right?" it sounds logical+has a reason.;-)

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  • keep it up you inspire....

    

  • @stephanerdman stephen iam in high school i think your advice is correct but not for my age group i have problems starting conversations iam not shy if i know what to say

  • cant i just be straight forward and tell the truth that i like her or is that too much?

  • @abacabbfgfgf either u are a 10-yearold having fun at your dads computer, or you live in the worst shit-hole were girls actually are sluts.

  • @Da1RiSiN1sMoKe If you dont have regular contact with her then she will think its weird, too forward but if she is commonly around you like in class, the setting is easier for her to get used to seeing you just as often, then the name request will look more like a greeting rather then a pick out from a crowd, IMO.

  • I need your help @stephanerdman I am in an orchestra for some years and this new girl just joined a few months ago and we practice (the whole orchestra) every week. Every time we meet this girl and I have a few eye to eye moments and smiles and I feel like my head is calling my stupid and crazy. However we recently have small small conversations but every time I talk I just do not know what to say. Please help because I really want to know and possibly be with her.

  • @TheyCallMeRamen Ok im gonna try that...i can talk to her on the phone but it's hard in person...she wants me to talk to her.I need some help with the approach.

  • @MejJalTok =)) say this -> You: [Error Data Not Found] - ups.

  • @Tlk0071 Its weird. Because something like this happened to me just the other day. But somehow I managed to talk to her. I never knew her But what I do is I pick out something in the environment whether its something about her, etc.. What she does, If she is at school, ask her about classes. Don't think too much about it though. If she's wearing a cool necklace or something unique you can say something like, "thats a cool necklace, whats the story behind that?

  • ALL GIRLS ARE WHORES, JUST OFFER THE 50 BUCKS AND THATS IT!!!!

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