@astreaNght We all need to keep reminding ourselves of this as many of us have been trained to take responsibility for others rather than for ourselves.
Thank you. This is very important. To please others for an anticipated dose of appreciation doesn't work in any kind of relationship (business etc). This 'being good' is mistaken for love but in fact is is a form of manipulation and disregard of one's own means. Others' well being is not my responsibility. I keep reminding myself.
i'm glad i'm learning how to give myself this love instead of always expecting to get this love from someone else,,,,i dont like feeling like a victim....thank you for showing " the How"
@astreaNght We all need to keep reminding ourselves of this as many of us have been trained to take responsibility for others rather than for ourselves.
innerbond 1 year ago
Thank you. This is very important. To please others for an anticipated dose of appreciation doesn't work in any kind of relationship (business etc). This 'being good' is mistaken for love but in fact is is a form of manipulation and disregard of one's own means. Others' well being is not my responsibility. I keep reminding myself.
astreaNght 1 year ago
@tushay67 I'm so pleased to hear this! Blessings to you,
Margaret
innerbond 1 year ago
i'm glad i'm learning how to give myself this love instead of always expecting to get this love from someone else,,,,i dont like feeling like a victim....thank you for showing " the How"
tushay67 1 year ago