Love Changes Everything - An adoption story

A baby was abandoned when he was just a day old. He had no chance of surviving. His cries was heard by God and a miracle took place. This is the story of Kenji Stephen Gregory who was left to die by his birthmother is now the light in our family and is very much love by all of us.

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[1963chia]

I am absolutely sure that my son was abandoned by his birth mother because the baby was found in a bush behind a housing area. He was left there wrapped up in a piece of newspaper and he was bitten by ants. If he is kidnapped, then the kidnapper would not have leave him there. Secondly, this happened in Sarawak, Malaysia and not other place. In my country, baby kidnapping is very rare and is pretty unheard of.

[barabinom]

How are you so sure this was an abandoned child. Perhaps the child was stolen from it's family and they are heartbroken not to have found him

[1963chia]

@barabinom Also, the authority placed a huge report in the local newspaper urging his birth parent to come forward to claim the baby. The report was accompanied with his photo. If this is truly a child taken by force by his parent, would his parent not come forward to claim him? So, I hope this answer your questions.

[raffynjenny]

watching this video really touched me as this is how adoption was intended to be this is what adoption is for and it's beautiful seeing it done as the way it was meant. I am a mother of adoption loss, I did not abandon my baby, my parents forced me to give him to older people and that adoption was wrong, it has wounded me and my son in a way no one understands but us. I wish people knew how damaging it is to separate mother and baby just for adoption, however yours was how adoption is intended

[1963chia]

@raffynjenny

My heart goes to you. Your parent probably had good intentions. But if I am your mum,Sometimes, our parents made wrong decisions but I hope that one day, you and your son will be reunited in a better situation where you both can love one another. Please don't be bitter or angry but try to work your way into being a happy person. It will make you a better mum when the time come. Trust your heart.

[raffynjenny]

@1963chia Awe thank you so much for your encouragement, my son and I reunited in 2008, A lot of promises were made to me that were never kept however I received updates for 18 years telling me all had been honored, my poor son when we reunited knew nothing, all the updates for 18 years were lies, his adoptive parents then pressured him to end reunion to move on he met me now time to move on, that is not what I was promised, he is back in my life though regardless, I am angry with them however

[1963chia]

@raffynjenny I can understand how hurt you must had been. I probably think that the adoptive parent are very insecure people who fears loosing "their adopted child" back to "biological mother." But nevertheless, you both had been reunited and now he will know the truth. For every adopted child, their anger is focused on being rejected by their real parent. They just want to know that they had not been rejected. I hope you will heal in time and that you will find hope and peace.

[1963chia]

@Torija0709 Thanks for telling me that. I did not know because I never had a baby. However, my son was checked by qualified medical doctors when he was brought into the hospital. The doctors wrote in his medical report that he is a newly born infant estimated to be about a day old.

[Torija0709]

A day old baby can't cry with tears...

[1963chia]

@Sammicsno The child was abandoned by his birth mother. Great effort by both the authority and myself was put in trying to locate the birth mother. We had even place an advertisement in the local newspaper trying to locate the birth mother but no person came forward. We did our best but apparently, the birth mother for reasons known only to herself first made the choice to abandon this child and not come forward when we tried to reach out to her.