How to Abandon a Narcissist and Move On
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@Khamomil I'm glad you will never know this pain. Unfortunately, I was a magnet to narcissists and psychopaths BECAUSE of my upbringing. This is what happens to us. Therapists told me to never go back home at 13 when they took me out but I felt responsibility towards everyone and it ALL turned against me...the term is identified patient. How did you see thru it so clearly? It struck him at 25 years old believing my mother! This is the poison of the N, it hovers &waits to destroy.
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@regardingme1 This must be the most painful experience imaginable to have a child turned against oneself. I feared it would happen to me if I had children because I was denied higher education and had no prospects of becoming financially able to support a family so with children I would have to ask my parents for help and they would have the financial power & with that alienate my children from me so I preferred to remain childless.
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@SoshiLoveable I believe they are very unhappy but don't want to do the hard work to change that so they go thru life playing "pretend" and resent anyone who is genuinely happy. I saw my mother destroy my joy so many times and only after seeing me downhearted would she perk up and become cheerful herself and let me tell you it hurts like hell.
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@Khamomil you sound so much like me. i am left with no son b/c he has turned against me after so much of a trusting, supportive and loving r/s, I haven't a family b/c my mother lied and said I tried to kill her when all I did was demand that she stop lying and she came out with both guns and now my own son hates me, my family is attached to the N as if they can't live w/o her, except she just died a few weeks ago but they will carry their loyalty to her to their graves also, sucks.
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@Khamomil she does not want to see everyone happy in life cos she has a fantasy in that head of hers does'nt she? she imagines being entitled to being the only one happy and everyone is left sad and depressed, she is being very unrealistic and it is good u cut all ties with her, u may be single,childless but happy :)
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Great work! TY
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I really don't want to be going around forgiving the narcissist in my life.. I prefer to take comfort that he's screwing himself over since he's not clever enough to fool everyone he knows...
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@patriciacarrasco Thanks for your comforting words. Of course I didn't want to become like her, I have a cheerful disposition & am a musician. I realized if I became dishonest I would never again be able to sing my head and heart off, but I stopped singing for many years anyway because my heart was broken and any attempt at singing only made me cry. Now I'm fine, still cheerful but single, childless and under 24/7 illegal surveillance.
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@Khamomil so true, u cant divorce ur mother or abusive family, ure stuck w/ them for life and is a cross u always have to bear. the best thing to do is to be brave and dont succumb to becoming like her. my brothers have succumbed to my narc. mother and become like her in a way: cruel and selfish to me their own sister who she always vilified because i stood up to her...but my mom backs off of my brothers because she forced them to be transformed into mini-monsters which was her goal
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Sir, you are doing good work. Thank you for opening our eyes to these malignant people and the harm they inflict. Best regards.
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Regarding narcissists, I follow Mr. T's words, "I pity the fool!"
plalelal 4 months ago 8
The narcissist in my life is my mother. You can't divorce your mother. I have had to cut all ties with her. She's 86 but just as virulent as if she were 40. All my 6 siblings are tight with her because they provide "narcissistic supply" whereas very young I detected her fakery and was split between my love and dependence on her as a girl, and my self respect and mental preservation. I survived several attempted murders and remain permanently injured but she has turned all my lawyers against me.
Khamomil 2 months ago 7