Bisexual? Or Just Plain Gay?

How do you know if you're gay or bisexual?

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[eliv127]

them themselves rather than whether or not I want to have sex with them as that gender. for people of the same gender im not sure if I want to have sex with them and I know im attracted to people of the opposite sex. does this make me strait bi or bicurrious?

[KindaGayBlog]

@eliv127 I would say you're bicurious or just curious about sexuality in general (and being curious about stuff is not a bad thing!)

[MrDekiruYo]

I appreciate the video but you shouldn't be furthering the stereotype that lots of bisexuals are just closetted gays.

[KindaGayBlog]

@MrDekiruYo That definitely was not my intention. I was just talking more about the stages of coming out to myself. I think it's a phase many closeted gay people go through but it certainly doesn't apply to everyone. Thanks for watching!

[SuperAlbertAL]

this is totally how i felt when i was 16. and now i think i'm gay and happy with this fact :)

[dbtreal]

saying "i'm bisexual" to a guy who you're sorta seeing would only hurt the other's feeling 'cause that guy would think he's never good enough for you (does this make sense?)

[iam2510015]

nope. not confused :) i'm very sure i'm gay, cuz i think you are pretty cute XD

[OneDollarMercenary]

in Pokémon language.

Straightmon > Bisexualmon > Gaymon.

[jazzman22]

When I was younger I had only crush on two girls in my life. But as I got older I notice I had more of attractions to guys. I thought I could be bi. So I decided not to date until I figure myself out. I realize when I would watch porn as teenager even if it was striaght porn I would always get hard on for the guy not the girl. But still didn't want to come out as a gay guy. But now in my late 20s I finally consider myself gay and I am ok with it. If others can't accppet it sorry to be them.

[eliv127]

im attracted to the same gender in some ways like my heart beats really fast and like i feel i want to make out with them but they have to be away for me to think about having sex with them and i think more about whether I want to have sex with someone of the same gender or not rather than having sex with that actual person. but with people of the opposite sex although i still have mostly the heart pounding want to make out with them thing the few I thought about having sex with I thought of

[Mau24ef]

@SuperAlbertAL how old are you now?

[hangas1]

i don't understand where the confusion lies. if a guy is sexually attracted to just women, then he's straight.. if he likes just men, he's gay.. if he likes both men and women, that would make him bi.. simple as that, to me anyway. i had no doubt of my identity from the time i was about 8 yrs. but i guess it's not so simple for others.