[part 2] The become a better man plan ...

http://www.askhotalphafemale.com/newoffer Here is part 2 of the become a better man plan. The most important aspects of this plan is to ensure that you treat yourself and other with kindness and respect.

Accept things that happened in the past that you perceive in a negative light and do your best to use the present to learn, experience and try new things that may work better for you in the future.

It's almost important that you apply what you know. When you apply those things you may intellectually know - you can increase your success and learning by 10 fold.

There are times where you just have to get out from the sidelines and get into the game. Now is your chance. Make the most of it.

0:00 - Step 3: Be kind and respectful to yourself
1:16 - Step 3(cont): Be kind and respectful to women
2:31 - Step 4: Stop talking and start doing

Would love to know how you guys go after you implement the become a better man plan.

I would wish you luck, but we both know it doesn't come down to that!

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[walkingon2001]

basically, I want to date her, but afraid I'll be too easy to get. Is that a useless worry? I've read so many times that girls don't like easy to get guys, just like I don't like girls I can get within reach distance. I want something that is a challenge. lol.

[jennelli17]

@walkingon2001 Part 1 of 4: There is a difference between having strong boundaries around your life and "playing hard to get". The intent is what makes the difference. When you have strong boundaries in your life it's because you respect yourself and the things that are important to you.

[jennelli17]

@walkingon2001 Part 2 of 4: When you are playing hard to get - you are essentially playing a game (where you eventually will be caught out on and it not sustainable). It's not what you are doing or saying that will make the difference, it's who you are “being” which will ultimately determine whether or not she is attracted to you.

[jennelli17]

@walkingon2001 Part 3 of 4: You are asking me a question which is based on the "approval" of this woman. You are worried that if you are not a mystery then she will not like you. Which is the in many ways the same conundrum as being super nice to get her approval. Each of these you are seeking approval from her. The people you seek the most approval from are sometimes the hardest people to get it from.

[jennelli17]

@walkingon2001 Part 4 of 4: So, first I would focus on working the qualities that would make you an interesting, challenging man (which are in your complete control) And, then you will know exactly how to handle this woman. And, probably attract the attention of other women in the process.

[walkingon2001]

could you please answer this? Now that a girl likes me(I'll skip the detail and why I think so), and I do like her. Should I let her in my world right away since we like each other. From experience, it's bad to let her walk into my world so easily, but what should I do?

[jennelli17]

@walkingon2001: It depends on what you mean by letting her walk into your world. This is part of the dating process, introducing a woman into your life. But you can control how much you would like her to see and how soon she can see it. You are in control of that, not her. So, it's up to you to decide.

[bradtelepo]

@silbanis You DO have the confidence and self esteem to get there. You know how???? That is the key question. For self esteem, one of the components on how to get there is via confidence. How do you get confidence?  via facing your fears and anxieties on all fronts. Just get the momentum going with EVERYTHING. In regards to the law of attraction, best way to attract a high quality women is become a high quality man.... just figure out what that is for. > 80% is health, money, job, relation

[TheAlfredgreen]

@jenelli17 you rather attractive. haha. So how would i go about getting you out on a date?

[IRnikeSB4life]

You are, by far, one of the most intelligent people out there.

You're advice is gold. Thank you so much for the help you have given to me. I look forward to seeing more from you. God bless.

[silbanis]

@bradtelepo To answer your question:Yes,I am judging without having tried

any system.Don't have the confidence or self-esteem to do so.Jennelli's

method & others are for guys who have had success in the past and

just need a little push to get them through a 3-6 month dry spell for

example.Its not for guys who are starting from zero.

Congrats on landing such a quality girl...Continued Success

[bradtelepo]

Respond to this video...  lovesystems(dot)com/dating-adv­ice/relationships/05-09-get-ex­-back

[bradtelepo]

@walkingon2001 @walkingon2001 Here is a good article:

Also read the kill beatrice part... it is very insightful, and how one-itis kills attraction. Understand this difference... focus on YOU... that means focusing on becoming a great man, which attracts women... that can be controlled. You can not control other people... that creates stress. Keep learning and experiencing...

[bradtelepo]

@CBasie2856 your last sentence is a "limiting belief". Do you know what this is, or means? It's very important... and we all do it. It is an inner game issue. Rewrite those beliefs. Why... your reality is a relfection of your belief. The truth... you are great at it... you just haven't learned that yet, like with any other skill, which is everything you've learned in your life. "whatever you think you can or can't do... either way, you are right".

[bradtelepo]

@silbanis You are correct, she is selling a product. However, from my experience, and never having bought anything from her, and following a different system... it has proven a huge difference in my success with women... this includes some friends as well. Have you tried any of the systems, or just judging? Mystery Method, and Magic Bullets, are great leads. It was an integral part (not the only key), in me landing a 10 quality girl, looks and personality. 80% me, add in 20% game.

[bradtelepo]

@walkingon2001 It's so nice to have outside advice, isn't it? We get so caught up in the emotion ourselves... guilty, too. :) If she wasn't up to hold your hand, that means you haven't re-built enough attraction. You are correct re: effort... but will we put in effort if we're not attracted? no. even you. Have you ever studied Mystery Method or Magic Bullets in creating attraction, and the steps? I, personally, am recently in the end of dealing with ex stuff. TBC...